Jord11 Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 This is how much I loved and cared for that girl, everything was great which I thought she broke up with me without any warnings and left, damn feel like I'm at the beginning again, miss her so much
LosingHope0806 Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 First, Please stop counting the days. This hurts so much trust I understand I am going through a similar situation. But you have to stop waking up every day and thinking "this is the nth day that we haven't spoken" Instead start living for you, doing things that make you feel good and help you forget the pain you are experiencing if only for a few minutes or hours.
forgetmenot75 Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 133 days means like 4 month and a half, right? You should be dating other women by this time. Try to move on, 4 months is a considerable time. as you don't know what is she doing, if she's dating someone else, if she's happy, you should try to delete her of your life. you loved her, you enjoyed her, you shared so many things with her...but no more. Life is change, yo must change, you must move on.
seahawker64 Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 There is nothing wrong that you still miss her. There is nothing you should be doing other than taking care of yourself. Get yourself back into fighting shape. I'm traveling the same road. We been split since the beginning of Feb and I still miss her like crazy but it very slowly gets better. Don't force yourself into a time limit. There is no limit. You could wake up tomorrow and be over it or it could take 6 more months. No one knows and there is no exact science to heartbreak. It's gonna take as long as it takes just let it run it's course. You will be better in the long run for it.
Art_Critic Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 It sounds like you aren't working hard enough on yourself, if you know that the days of NC is at 133 then you are not spending enough time doing things for yourself. it might be time to start to date..etc etc
hoping2heal Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 I'm sorry you're hurting. I hope that in time you'll be able to make sense of why the two of you didn't work out and have some peace. Also, maybe I'm crazy but I don't think 4 months is that long too grieve the end of a love relationship.
mtnbiker3000 Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 I'm sorry you're hurting. I hope that in time you'll be able to make sense of why the two of you didn't work out and have some peace. Also, maybe I'm crazy but I don't think 4 months is that long too grieve the end of a love relationship. I agree. I don't think 4 months is all that long. I am almost at 4 months also and I am still in pain as well. It hurts and it's difficult. The only reason I know exactly how many days is the last time I saw or spoke to her was on St Paddy's. A quick look on the calendar on my computer and it's pretty easy to count Hang in there, and as others have mentioned, it will be over when it's over. You can't rush it. That simply does not work. It's like trying to lie to yourself. Even the best liar can't fool themselves. They always know the truth...
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