henderson14 Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 I hope no one will take this thread personally. I was wondering a few things. First, I know a lot of people who say they don't want to date kids from divorced families. I wonder what their reasons are? Have you noticed that they are usually different in some way? I kind of have. I've never intentionally dated kids from divorced families, but I've somehow always, except for one time, always dated girls from together and close families. I think maybe I sense that they have been emotionally and mentally damaged in some way, so I back off. I dated a girl once who was from a divorced family, and she had a lot of issues form her parents divorce that I never had with another girl. Do young adults who are from divorced families feel a certain bond with each other? I've noticed that they seem to connect better because they both went through the same thing. I just met another girl from a divorced family, and surprise surprise, she got cheated on from a recent BF and I suspect she was cheating on her current BF with me at bar. And she hit on me! How has divorce affect you in relationships?
todreaminblue Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 My parents were together for twenty five years, they separated sixteen years ago and never divorced, both sets of grandparents were together till death and will be together eternally i believe that i have never married.....was with a guy for fifteen years and we broke up with three girls....... i believe in marriage and i believe in eternal marriage.....but.....the guy i was with obviously didn't believe in the same things i do...i dont think it comes down to my family history at all ...just circumstance..... cheating is not only a product of broken marriages or relationships...it exists in the heart fo the eprson cheating....would be there regardless of status......of parents grandparents...etc....... i was cheated on by the guy whose parents are still together........you cant judge a person on their parents....you have to go by who they are.....deb
KungFuJoe Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 I never, not once, ever heard such a thing. Until today. 4
Vinegar Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 my parents are still together and I try not to date people who have divorced parents. I think sometimes they have it in their head that marriage does not work out.although I am open to people who have parents who are divorced. I feel like I have to be because there are so many. I try not to judge people based on their parents.
suladas Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 Judging someone based on their parents is retarded. Having divorced parents means nothing.
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