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Why can't my heart confirm he's a loser!?


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I'm not sure why i'm ruminating or why I'm even thinking about this person. I knew him for a few months, we went out a few times, we were intimate once, he made me laugh and i enjoyed his company but i never really knew if he was truly looking for a relationship or just going with the flow. Our last date he got so wasted that it caused him to sleepwalk and urinate on my carpet!! Of course he didn't remember so i looked like a liar when i told him and i was like how did u think the floor got wet? Well after this he blocked my number. After his pee incident most people probably wouldn't care and would say good riddance but me on the other hand is taking it to heart that he blocked me. This person does this, then after some research i found he was arrested last year, doesn't see his kids, and lives at home with his mom at 32. He told me he had his own place but it didnt seem right because he never invited me there!!! He always came to me. know he sounds like a loser but i don't know why i'm taking this to heart that he blocked my calls when he was wrong even though he was drunk!! He seems very immature and not someone i'd want long term but i can't shake it for some reason!! Any advice!? Maybe i feel like this because i didn't get an apology or he blocked me because he is embarrassed. Also why would a man not be allowed to see his kids or why wouldn't he? Can a judge order this? I guess i'm looking for reassurance here that he is a loser.

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hey sweet,

 

I think you know he is a loser, i have had a guy pee on my television drunk as wasted on a date........i didnt see him again, turned me off dating anyone who gets wasted i learned my lesson i didnt need anyone to tell me that guy was a loser, whether or not he is embarassed or seeing his kids , shouldnt be a concern to you ...he peed on your floor....like a dog......so take a deep breath let it out, you just dodged a bullet, thank god above and move on.......i wish you much luck finding a guy who is respectful of you and your space, by not peeing everywhere.....good luck.....hugs....deb

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hey sweet,

 

I think you know he is a loser, i have had a guy pee on my television drunk as wasted on a date........i didnt see him again, turned me off dating anyone who gets wasted i learned my lesson i didnt need anyone to tell me that guy was a loser, whether or not he is embarassed or seeing his kids , shouldnt be a concern to you ...he peed on your floor....like a dog......so take a deep breath let it out, you just dodged a bullet, thank god above and move on.......i wish you much luck finding a guy who is respectful of you and your space, by not peeing everywhere.....good luck.....hugs....deb

 

 

Yes, i don't understand why someone would get that wasted. Immaturity i guess! Thanks

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