markil Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 Hi everyone im new to this so bear with me, 2 years ago a girl I was dating for 3 months broke up with me saying the spark wasn't there, this after saying I was the guy of her dreams and how she sees a great future together, anyway we stayed in touch on and off for the last 2 years and decided to meet for a drink (I had no intention of dating her again until I saw her and we just clicked again just like last time) anyway after another 3 months dating of non stop texting and seeing each other she's done it again! Things we're going really well (her words) and she said it was different this time and last time she wasn't ready for a relationship but she is now, literally 3 days later she breaks up with me saying she's unsure what she wants and isn't 100% committed to us, she said we should meet up in a couple of weeks for a drink and she wants to stay in touch with me, im really confused as to what this means? Am I being led on? Problem is I really like her and I didn't realise it but have never stopped feeling something for her these past 2 years, why did she come back after so long if she didn't feel it first time around? I feel like im being a sucker here but I really want to see her again but am I being foolish thinking its not over, any help would be great please, i know im not in a position like some of you who have come out of long term relationships but my pain is the same
Simon Phoenix Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 Break-up with me once, shame on you. Break-up with me twice, shame on me. Was coming to post this very same thing. 1
SimonSerenade Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 Take it from me, that's a red flag and a warning sign of things to come, unless you change your attitude and your willing to walk away from her when she does this, you might aswell be on your hands on knees with this lady's feet on your back because that's how she'll view you, there's plenty of great girls out there, don't settle for someone who's willing to leave you like that.
Nicoleiia Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 She's just going to keep doing it. Stop talking to her and move on. She is nothing but trouble. She is all over the place. Don't do it to yourself. You know she's no good if you came on here to talk about it. 1
Author markil Posted July 3, 2013 Author Posted July 3, 2013 Thanks for all the replies, I guess I kinda knew they would be the responses id get, its hard to see and believe these things when you feel strongly about someone, a few friends have said the same thing but I didn't want to listen to them, Guess I'll just have to get over her
itto ogami Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 Better to find out now than later. Lesson learned. You're wiser for the much better person who will come along. 1
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