Mariibabii Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 your boyfriend, fiance, guy you're talking to etc quit his job, and moves back home with no plan?
atlg8r Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 I would talk to him about things. If he quit and isn't taking action to find another way to support himself, I would not really be interested in continuing that relationship.
amaysngrace Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 I'd nickname him Peter Pan and call him that from now on or pee pee for short... 3
USMCHokie Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 This sounds no different from asking a guy what he'd do if his significant other let herself go physically, no...? 1
Emilia Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 your boyfriend, fiance, guy you're talking to etc quit his job, and moves back home with no plan? Depends. If it was a guy I was just talking to I'd ask why. If it was a fiance or boyfriend and they did this without discussing it with me first I would start considering our future. 1
SmileFace Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 This sounds no different from asking a guy what he'd do if his significant other let herself go physically, no...? No, it's no different than his significant other quiting her job and moving home with no plans. Smh 2
USMCHokie Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 No, it's no different than his significant other quiting her job and moving home with no plans. Smh But aren't both conscientious decisions to become worse off...?
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 If it's a guy that is my boyfriend (and I don't enter relationships lightly), I would talk to him to get to the bottom of this. My first concern would be if he is OK - I would care much less about finances (but then I am financially comfortable so maybe that factors in). I actually don't see myself ever dumping him over something like that.
soccerrprp Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 your boyfriend, fiance, guy you're talking to etc quit his job, and moves back home with no plan? Guy here, but I would hope that my GF would talk to me about it before coming to conclusions. I recently thought about moving back in with my mother in another state. My plan was to find a new job, save TONS of money for a year and then move out and find my own place. Mind you, I am financially sound, so there is NO need to do this on my part, but the offer was given and I fleetingly thought about it. Kind of crazy, really. Anyway, if the guy or girl has no plan....one must consider breaking it. The last thing anyone wants is to be burdened by someone who is not willing to be a constructive member of a relationship. 1
SmileFace Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 But aren't both conscientious decisions to become worse off...? Yes but they aren't interchangeable.
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