Kelsey1220 Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 (edited) The first time me and my ex dated we lasted 1 month. We went 2 weeks no contact then started texting eachother casually. 2 months later we were dating again and I was his first ex he'd went back to. He said he couldn't keep me out of his mind while we were broken up. Well this time it lasted 2 years and 4 months which is his longest relationship. High school sweethearts. We went to 5 dances together, saw each other graduate (he's a year older than me). He went to a military school his freshmen year In college and I would drive up there to see him 3 hours away, we were eachothers first In almost everything, including virginity, his sister had cancer and I stuck with him and was there threw it all. His parents do not like me for some unknown reason which they can not answer and so does his other sister. We got in a fight because me and him were supposed to go to this military wedding together as I was his date. Well then his dad ordered a plane ticket for his sister behind ours backs so needless to say I didn't get to go.....he had all this stuff planned out for us to do there but instead he got to do it with his sister well we fought those first 24 hours he was there..... Then all of a sudden I texted him after we both cooled down and no answer. 4 hours later I texted him again and he says what and he didnt feel the need to talk to me. I ask him what he's doing and he said nothing but then I call him and he keeps ending my calls and said dont call him. Well he ends ups ignoring me and 2 weeks later the only thing he has said to me is we are not dating again, I don't care to tell you why it what happened, and he will not meet me or talk on the phone about it. I later found an email sent to the people of the wedding (we have eachothers passwords) saying "thanks for the advice and drinks (he never drank before) that night otherwise if still be with my girlfriend so I thank you for that and I'm still single so if you had money on us being together your wrong so pay up". I confronted him about and he cussed me out and hung up the phone, which was the only time he agreed to talk to me. I'm very pissed about what I found because he's known those people 9 months and me 3 years and I feel like I was a bet. He changed all his passwords except for the one that I found that nasty email in. He erased all of his zales emails but yesterday I saw that he read and kept the ones he got yesterday and I wrote him a 2 page email since he's back at college and he kept that also but he has not sent me 1 Text the past 5 days and we still have eachothers stuff. All of our pictures are still up on both our facebooks, he wrote a status saying "change is good the only problem is embracing it", and he wrote one yesterday saying he's coming home for a few days and would like to catch up with people and that it was gonna be a great time. I feel like he's talking to me through Facebook (I won't delete him) but if I text him to get something back he will not answer me. The week before we broke up he wrote me a love letter saying he loved me and that even though we fight sometimes its accompanied by great traits and its perfect. He told me I never supported him at school but the week before the break up he said that I was the only reason he got passed it. That Friday right before he got on the plane we were hugging and kissing and he said I can't wait to come back home to you..... Then that 48 hours change everything and he won't tell me why. At the same time he keeps in touch with my brother..... They are like brothers so my brother asked him if he talked to me yet and he said a little but we aren't dating anytime soon and he asked him if he was gonna talk to me as friends anytime soon and he said maybe. He knows I hurt my leg but instead of asking me about it he will text my brother and ask him how it's doing...it makes me so mad. He was supposed to go to my brothers game and my brother said I wouldn't be there and he said I know. Well he never showed up. I feel like he doesn't want me to date Anyone else but he will not answer me. I'm giving him space and he said he will text me if he ever wants to. But he tells my brother we aren't dating anytime soon then tells me to never talk to him again and he's not dating me. I'm starting to think he did something at the wedding and he can't face me about it...he's starting to push me away the way he's acting. My question is do you think he will come back to me? I know a lot of people aren't gonna deal with him being gone 9 months out the year at military school except 5 weekends a year. We went through a lot and know eachother and he came back one already. He went cold turkey on me and I don't want him to forget me but I feel as though he doesn't love me anymore. There is no other girl he said the point of us not dating is so he's single. What are yalls thoughts? Edited July 2, 2013 by Kelsey1220
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