hellischrome Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 After 8 months as bestfriends and 6 as a couple. He dumped me. Two hours ago. He just left saying he needs to solve the issues he has, ex girlfriend included, otherwise he cannot be happy with me. It's been on and off for 6 months. It's the first time I experience this, I had a boyfriend for 7 years before and I was the one who broke up with him. So, when does it start to hurt? I don't feel to bad right now - had a pizza, chat with some friends. Will it hurt really bad tomorrow when I will wake up?
athousandquestions Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 It varies for each person. I was in agony the moment my breakup happened. But keeping yourself busy can really change that. Maybe you won't be as shattered as you thought. You can live without this guy
Author hellischrome Posted July 3, 2013 Author Posted July 3, 2013 I actually cried yesterday right after the break up, but then I got pizza and I was OK. When I woke up this morning I thought I'd be devastated - slept in instead and got to work 40 minutes late. Now if I talk about it I feel tears coming, but if I don't, it's just OK. I don't know. I am really scared, never had a breakup before and dont know how I react. Well once years and years ago my BF dumped me for 24 hours. I felt I could die. I couldnt even talk, I wanted to harm myself. Now there is nothing like that but maybe I just have to wait. Maybe I am just hoping he will call me before leaving or when he comes back.
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