defs Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 So last night my girlfriend and I had a serious talk about how I remind her of her ex etc and she just doesn't know what to do anymore.. I obviously felt pretty down in the gutters to know that I was still only 2nd place in her heart but for some reason I just didn't want to break up with her and gave her a chance.. a small break, kind of. But now I am just dying inside.. I don't know what to do? The more I think about stuff.. the more I start thinking things like was I the rebound? Am I stupid for giving her a chance to forget her ex? What should I do?
Legatus Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 I think giving someone a break is not a good idea if you don't trust them. Sometimes they want it anyway and everything gets complicated. Stay focused but try to give her space she wants. Wait for her if you gave her a second chance, but don't limit your life to her. Remember you have a break too, try to catch up with people and activities that got put away while you were with her. If you start going mad with the fact that you don't know what she does, whom with et cetera - then you need to speak up. You have a right to be treated properly..
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