TomHigher5 Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 (edited) I've been dating my gf since mid April and would like some input if I'm going on a slow pace. If so, what is the average frame for most couples? The reason I was asking if because I heard my gf briefing talking to one of her friends on how I'm taking my time and the friend replied with an ''Are you sure he's interested in you, that seems long for a man''. Ladies (and men) is that really too long? We do make-out and I've fingered her a couple of time as well caressing. Edited July 2, 2013 by TomHigher5
Author TomHigher5 Posted July 2, 2013 Author Posted July 2, 2013 Depends on how old you both are. The younger she is the more the more likely it is she's going to want to wait for an extended period of time. If she's a virgin or has not had a lot of sexual encounters she may worry that she is too inexperienced and trying to avoid it as long as possible. If you've not had any sexual contact aside from occasional digital penetration, have you discussed or even sort of attempted oral sex?Our ages are respectively 21 and 2o. Nope, she's not the virgin (she's been with 3 guys prior to meeting me). I am, yet I'm older than her. I haven't try oral sex yet. I guess I'm going too slow.
Author TomHigher5 Posted July 2, 2013 Author Posted July 2, 2013 I see. So what you're saying is, you are the one who is taking things slow? I mean, if you initiated full on intercourse would she be opposed?Yes, it's me taking things slow. Not sure if she would opposed since I haven't make further moves. At your age I guess yeah, you are moving rather slowly and since it sounds like sexual inexperience isn't her issue I have to ask, why haven't you taken the plunge? This isn't a knock of course since if that's what you're comfortable with I certainly don't see an issue with it.I guess I'm kind of shy about it and the very same fact I'm kind of clueless.
TheGuard13 Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 Depends on the people involved. When my ex wife and I were virgins at 20/21, we waited about six months.
gaius Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 If you want to try oral get a few lesbian porn videos and study up. They usually have decent techniques in there for beginners so you at least know what spot to lick. You should probably hurry it up a little. If you don't feel comfortable trying stuff for the first time after 2-3 months I don't think you're gonna get much more comfy if you wait any longer. And she is probably gonna start wondering if you're really into her or not. Once you're over the hump you'll feel better. 1
Author TomHigher5 Posted July 4, 2013 Author Posted July 4, 2013 If you want to try oral get a few lesbian porn videos and study up. They usually have decent techniques in there for beginners so you at least know what spot to lick. You should probably hurry it up a little. If you don't feel comfortable trying stuff for the first time after 2-3 months I don't think you're gonna get much more comfy if you wait any longer. And she is probably gonna start wondering if you're really into her or not. Once you're over the hump you'll feel better.Yes, I'm kind of shy about it. I don't even last too long when I played with myself. If I can at least last 5+ mins it would be good.
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