ameliajones843 Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 I am a female. I'll make this kinda short even though it's a semi long story. The first time my ex and I dated, it was great; not too physical. we had fun. I broke up with him because I got jealous of a girl and worried he was secretly unhappy. After a month we got back together but this time I was pretty physical with him. He did not push it on me I was the one who wanted to be physical because I missed him and cared (stupid thing to do i know but I've learned from it) anyways a few weeks passed and then we did the "deed". A week after we did the deed he broke up with me. He said he did not want this anymore & we rushed into things thinking it would be the same. I respect all that he said because he is entitled to his opinion but I was pretty crushed. I held my head high, I said im sorry you have to do this I know it is hard breaking up with people. I did not beg or plead or demand to know a million questions. I just walked away. A week later was my birthday and he messaged me on facebook and said happy birthday, I was surprised, said thank you and that was the end. Its been a month, I haven't tried to make connect neither has he. I have not put any statuses that lead him to believe I am sad because I know that just makes me look stupid. I guess, In a way I am hoping the no contact rule will work and he will come back. not because I want to date him again. I want him to just try to talk to me so he can see how I feel. That may seem selfish but i guess I want him to see he lost a decent girl. I cant just text him a month later and be like you suck you did this and this, because I want to keep my dignity and my pride Sorry, that was longer than I expected to type. God bless yall that read it all. Let me know what you think. Do you think he just said happy birthday to be nice? do you think he hasn't tried to contact me because he simply doesn't give two craps or that he's just embarrassed and thinks I totally hate him because i haven tried to contact him. what are your opinions because yall don't know me or him so you cant be biased. I need some advice from guys too because my brother and father are not good help
InsaneTrombone Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 He was just being nice because it was your birthday. 1
Author ameliajones843 Posted July 2, 2013 Author Posted July 2, 2013 I just dont understand why he would bother. Y'all men are weird.
Legatus Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 It certainly does look like he's only trying to be nice. Is he really? I would question his motives anyway. Birthday, in my opinion, is also a good excuse to see if you reply and HOW you reply. You're right you can't ask for explanations now, I myself have asked for it the moment I was dumped, and went through hell of a month to get some simple answers losing my dignity along the way. But now I would do like you did and I learnt my lesson. I would just walk away without wasting a single second... 1
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