Ale khun Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 Well apparently he waited all Saturday for my "text " I was supposed to text him but I didn't So he texted me : I waited all Saturday but maybe another day that you are available ... I hate this breadcrumbs .. Despite all that I'm temped to text him back ... How can you ignore someone you love? It's easier for me to stay NC when I don't hear from him but I hate every time he texts because I feel the urge to reply . Help
athousandquestions Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 Step by step guide to ignoring someone you love: 1. Remind yourself that they do not love you back. If they did, if they really truly loved you the way you love them, they would not have left you. 2. Realize talking or replying to them will only make them lose even more respect for you, gain more control over you, and set you back in your healing. 3. End the conversation, delete the messages, turn your phone off. 5
Nyclovin Posted July 2, 2013 Posted July 2, 2013 Agree totally with posters answer. If they loved you they wouldn't have left you . And if they feel bad about how they treated you is a text really enough to convey that! They are either doing two things 1) trying to stay in touch to relieve themselves of the guilt they have for treating you bad or 2) they are lonely and feel that they always have you in their back pocket just waiting for them. F them. Text someone back who deserves your time and thumb efforts.
Author Ale khun Posted July 2, 2013 Author Posted July 2, 2013 Agree totally with posters answer. If they loved you they wouldn't have left you . And if they feel bad about how they treated you is a text really enough to convey that! They are either doing two things 1) trying to stay in touch to relieve themselves of the guilt they have for treating you bad or 2) they are lonely and feel that they always have you in their back pocket just waiting for them. F them. Text someone back who deserves your time and thumb efforts. Yes I'm in the backburner for him , after the BU I started a FWB with him because for me that was better than nothing .. Big mistake ! .now I'm triying to move on because he is a very blunt person and he didn't have any remorse when he ended the relationship I really hate when he texts me because I feel uneasy and I have the feeling of replying
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