tomblanco123 Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 I met this girl a while ago. I am not sure if she likes me. She seems to be shy at work (however she is not when she is with her friends). She normally answers my text and her face lightens up when I give her a hug (I think). She doesn't seem to be uncomfortable hugging me. We both wenton holiday lately and agreed to bring a little present to ech other. We haven't exchanged it yet. I am thinking to ask her out for a coffe to exchange gifts and to catch up. Haven't seen each other for a while... She always sends me a shy smile (or reserved, not sure) when we see each other. I have a feeling that she likes me but I think, she is bothered by the age difference. What do you think? Is the coffee a good idea in this case? She is a very mature girl for her age.
Ninjainpajamas Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 It should take anywhere from 10-20 percent of man-force to swoon a girl in her early 20's as a man in your late 20's, this really shouldn't be an issue for you. In approximately two to three weeks she'll be head over heels for you (just because), and she'll think she's mature for dating an "older and more mature" guy for her age, it's like a girl scout badge. Women don't date men or not date certain men for logical reasons, so age isn't an issue for most, so chances are she'd give it a "chance" if she likes you enough...then you can slam open the vagina door and pretty much do what you'd like with her heart...easy peasy. 1
KungFuJoe Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 It should take anywhere from 10-20 percent of man-force to swoon a girl in her early 20's as a man in your late 20's, this really shouldn't be an issue for you. In approximately two to three weeks she'll be head over heels for you (just because), and she'll think she's mature for dating an "older and more mature" guy for her age, it's like a girl scout badge. Women don't date men or not date certain men for logical reasons, so age isn't an issue for most, so chances are she'd give it a "chance" if she likes you enough...then you can slam open the vagina door and pretty much do what you'd like with her heart...easy peasy. Hey while you've got your crystal ball out, can you let me know what this week's lotto numbers are going to be? Thanks! 1
somedude81 Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 No, it's really creepy to be dating a girl when there is such a large age gap between you. 2
SJC2008 Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 I've posted on this topic before. There's a 19/20 year old that I thought about asking out. Part of me says I'm too old and the other part of me says stop being so naive, she's probably had more sex over the course of a weekend than I've had my entire life.
Carenth Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 I see most 19/20 year old's as children these days... and I'm only 26. 2
kaylan Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 Do it if you want OP. Dont expect it to go anywhere though.I see most 19/20 year old's as children these days... and I'm only 26. I feel the same way.
Ninjainpajamas Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 (edited) Hey while you've got your crystal ball out, can you let me know what this week's lotto numbers are going to be? Thanks! Well Joe....it's so nice of you to visit us and take personal time from your utopia called marriage, what words of wonder and magic are you going to bless the LS kingdom with today? Or will you be on a photo shoot for Kodak and Disney today, since you're the happiest most wonderful married couple on the planet? Gee golly, some white doves just flew over my house sprinkling rose petals upon my face, that is some reality you live in...I wish I could live there, is there a waiting list into this heaven on earth? Edited July 1, 2013 by Ninjainpajamas
miss_jaclynrae Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 Age means nothing. Go for it. Same age gap between my man and I and we are very happy. If it doesn't work out, I can guarantee that age won't be the reason.
RedRobin Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 It should take anywhere from 10-20 percent of man-force to swoon a girl in her early 20's as a man in your late 20's, this really shouldn't be an issue for you. In approximately two to three weeks she'll be head over heels for you (just because), and she'll think she's mature for dating an "older and more mature" guy for her age, it's like a girl scout badge. Women don't date men or not date certain men for logical reasons, so age isn't an issue for most, so chances are she'd give it a "chance" if she likes you enough...then you can slam open the vagina door and pretty much do what you'd like with her heart...easy peasy. Good one.....
white Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 Go for it. You'll need to be direct because she has no idea about anything. If you get shot down, just remember, you didn't make the move out of nowhere - she made you feel it was worth trying. It's on her. Unfortunately we all know there are plenty of attention seeking young ladies out there who'll take all your attention if you let them without a seconds thought for the consequences, let alone your feelings as another human being.
Phantom888 Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 What is the appeal of a 20-year-old? She's barely an adult. If she likes you now, her preferences will change as she gets older, so you can't really plan long term things with her. If you actually have things in common to talk about, then you need to mature up. When you became a legal adult, she was in the 3rd grade. Just a thought...
white Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 Who are you to tell someone what they do or do not see, do or do not have in common, with someone else? Let alone whether they should "mature up" their interests. If I was the OP I'd tell you where you could stick that. I've met 16 year olds more mature, with more of their **** together, than some 60 year olds I've known.
darkmoon Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 she might have a protective family member, twenty is still quite young, so if you both fall in love it is fine, only you know what you want out of life
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