Whisky1981 Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 So hello again...I havent been active on this forum for a year. It's been a year and a half that I am single and I spent the past year going out meeting new people (girls)....and this went on for a whole year almost every weekend. So what can I say after all this time...if I am still single my experiences arent the best... Dont get me wrong, I dont hate the opposite sex, I am allways polite and respectful. I have tried it all, being funny (it depends by the mood I am in), a little cocky and all the other shi* you'll hear as an advice in getting women. And of course I am always myself never pretending or being a player in any way. So what did I realize. That women are superficial as hell. I dont know but I have the feeling that if you dont fit at least an 80% perfection from the men in the ads you're f*cked. I dont consider myself to be the ugliest thing in the world, I have my insecurities and I hate a lot of things about my appereance but who dosen't ? Everyone would like to be something else or at least have something else that somebody else have. In a year of approaching, I have to say that there weren't a lot of it maybe I tried to approach around 20 girls, all that I got was a night of sweet kisses. Really sad. And yes I have never been approached by anyone . It would be great to try this feeling at least once so it would build up a mans ego for a while. So what image of woman did I create in my mind? So first thing is you have to be hansome, not really beautiful - face isnt everything, if you dont have the most manly features like large shoulders or big chest or big arms, look something like a prisoner who came out of a jail a month before you are mostly going to fail. I dont understand this. Is the women mind really fu*ed up? What do they expect? Do we all have to look like Hugh Jackson? I won't say that I am not picky...I am a little picky, for me face is everything and if that goes I dont look at boobs or ass or anything else on a women. As long as they are normal its a go for me and from there on is personality. But this dosen't seem to be the case for a woman. If you dont fit perfection that she created in her mind you're out on the first move. Is this normal? I don't know I am perplexed here....it should be the opposite, aren't women the sex which cares more about feelings and personality? So yes....I am fed up with all of it...I am giving up and I dont really care. I am not going to hurt myself anymore. Coming home every saturday evening and waking up every sunday morning with a bitter feeling of how I wasn't successful the other night. I decided that I don't need a woman to be happy...I can live with myself and have fun by myself. At least I still have health and financial stability so I should be happy because I have that...right?!? Now I just have to get myself use to it. Thanks for reading and I just needed to vent somewhere because I think I hit the rock bottom in relationship. Isnt internet for that?
KungFuJoe Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 Wow. I have never heard this angle before. This is serious ground breaking news in the world of sociology and relationships. Have you considered trying to get your findings published somwhere?
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