How to handle my first relationship fight... worried,

[ireneypoo]

Yesterday, my boyfriend and I had a huge fight. Well, in our case it was huge considering we had never had a fight before. We have been going out for 4 months. After our fight, we told each other our mistakes, and how we would try to improve later on. In all, I think we have resolved it. However, I feel as if there are still some tension between us. This is normal right? He said "morning" to me first, but before our fight, it would be "morning babe <3." In a way, he was cold towards me. No, the fight was not one sided, we admitted for both of us to be in the wrong. I know things can't go back to the ways things were so quick, as it has only been a day, but will it eventually smooth over? Should I also act cold towards him, or try and say sweet stuff to him again? I don't want to be cold. Also, when he texts and I text back, he gives a few words answers, in which I can't exactly respond back to. For example, he told me that the weather channel warned there was gonna be a flash flood today. I asked "Really? It's going to rain that hard?! I didn't know that! Thankfully I didn't go out today!" He responded an hour later saying, "Yeah, but I think it's cleared up." How do you respond to that? All I could think of was "Oh okay that's good then" Should I be worried? Or should I make the effort and try to communicate? What should I do? Maybe time is what we need?

 

I'm not very good at this, being that this is my first fight with him and I'm unsure how to handle this. :/

[pteromom]

I already answered this for you on your other post.