lostinlove101 Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 (edited) Pain and longing of missing someone? When you can't contact the one you miss, no matter how well it ended ( very well, on good terms that is) in my case? It's like they're dead, but you know they're out there... Just a text or phone call away. Been fighting with the urge to contact for two days now. ETA: my friends don't understand and I don't feel like I have anywhere to turn to receive constructive/supportive feedback. Edited July 1, 2013 by lostinlove101
athousandquestions Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 I don't know much about your breakup. But if they dumped you? They don't want to be with you anymore. Contacting them will only annoy them (no matter how nice they pretend to be). It doesn't matter what they say, because actions speak much louder than words and they CHOSE to leave you. Whenever I remind myself of that I am no longer tempted to contact my ex. I don't want to make myself pathetic, to embarrass myself in front of him. And I hope that after a long time of NC (years) we can reconnect. If I reach out to him, I'll ruin that. If you chose to dump them, don't you dare reach out. That is the most selfish and cruel thing you can do.
Author lostinlove101 Posted July 1, 2013 Author Posted July 1, 2013 He broke up with me, but I had dumped him in the passed ( many years ago, when I was a different person) we've been friends before and didn't even date that long this go around... We've texted since we broke up and communicated on FB but that's it. I think we can be friends because we've done it before. I just miss him and want some level on maintained contact. I don't know that there is a blacks and white solution, I'm just doing the best I can. It's not like he's been ignore me when I reach out, I just don't want to over do it.
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