Hopeinme Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 Hi everyone, I think I am finally over with my ex!! ) I feel so freeeeeeee 2
Bito Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 Good to hear. remember that feelings usually are temporary so if you feel sad at some point in the future don't beat yourself up. Keep at it 1
mtnbiker3000 Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 How far post BU are you? Did you go NC? How long?
Author Hopeinme Posted July 1, 2013 Author Posted July 1, 2013 Good to hear. remember that feelings usually are temporary so if you feel sad at some point in the future don't beat yourself up. Keep at it Yeah, I have been constantly reminding myself about that. We are all going to be okie. Thanks
Author Hopeinme Posted July 1, 2013 Author Posted July 1, 2013 How far post BU are you? Did you go NC? How long? Yes. I went totally NC. I think what reallt helped is NC! Completely disappearing from his life. We broke up in April.
Oldcatskinner Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 Hopeinme, Congratulations on your outlook. I will caution you on this, and for all you folks out there going through this please take heed: No Contact is a TOOL for healing. It is NOT the end goal. The end goal is to LIVE. By this, LIVE a life full of purpose, worth, and dignity. Do what is right for YOU. I've looked at enough posts on the net over the last few months, and what I have learned is that those that use NC for the sake of NC have no end goal in mind, resulting in cyclical heartbreak. Setting goals and working hard to achieve them reasserts that YOU as a person have WORTH, and a pleasant side effect of this is that YOU will find that YOU have ACHIEVED success without the EX. Have a great day everyone! 2
Author Hopeinme Posted July 1, 2013 Author Posted July 1, 2013 Hopeinme, Congratulations on your outlook. I will caution you on this, and for all you folks out there going through this please take heed: No Contact is a TOOL for healing. It is NOT the end goal. The end goal is to LIVE. By this, LIVE a life full of purpose, worth, and dignity. Do what is right for YOU. I've looked at enough posts on the net over the last few months, and what I have learned is that those that use NC for the sake of NC have no end goal in mind, resulting in cyclical heartbreak. Setting goals and working hard to achieve them reasserts that YOU as a person have WORTH, and a pleasant side effect of this is that YOU will find that YOU have ACHIEVED success without the EX. Have a great day everyone! Well said! Cheers xx
maturityassets Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 Affirming that you are moving on is always a good sign but you never have to announce you are over someone. Just don't do anything to bold or rash to test to see if you are over your ex by breaking contact or something. I think you have officially moved on when you don't even realize that you are living life without even thinking it. But its really positive to say that you are moving on, says you really look forward to that day to be free of it all and that you no longer wish to hold onto an empty love 2
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