KungFuJoe Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 I guess we all act in different situations in a different way depending on our life experiences... I have had big difficulties with stalkers in the past and I just didn't like the sound of it how it came to me. I guess this has stayed in the back of my head and therefore I have made a thread about it, I wanted to hear what other people had to say about it. It may sounds bad to you, other posters thought differently. I am sorry if it didn't came to you in the right way, I am not pretending to be a douche but I can't control what kind of image each of my posts give of me to different people, my posts are the reflection of what I think and I am not pretending everyone to like them, I am not writing to be liked but to expose what is in my head at that exact moment. I hear you and like I said, I've read plenty of your other posts and I don't think you're a douche at all. But I think perhaps with your former experiences you might just be overly cautious. Kinda like someone who was cheated on constantly might not be so trusting. But the reality is, this girl likes you. That's it. She isn't camping overnight outside your house, she isn't stalking you in Facebook, and she isn't getting your name tattooed on her cheek. As long as she isn't invading your personal space, let her feel however she wants. 1
Els Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 Wow, if it's been going on for 'months' and everyone knows about it, gotta be a pretty huge crush... 1
Author therhythm Posted July 26, 2013 Author Posted July 26, 2013 (edited) Backreading LS a bit and just saw this thread. If you ever had a celebrity crush, then you might already understand how it works. You've never met the celebrity, yet you were able to form a crush on her/him. Or if you ever had a crush at the workplace but didn't tell her about it, then that's the same principle. You might not have ever talked to her, because she works at a different department, yet you were able to form a crush. The underlying reason for it all is "love chemicals". When you feel attracted to someone, you might start thinking about them more and from that your love chemicals could start to flow and you develop a crush. Every crush involves a bit of an obsession. Obsession, as the dictionary states, is not being able to get something or someone off your mind. So you keep thinking about a certain person, even if you don't want to. The love chemicals that are flowing through your body and brain are causing that. Thank you mate! I can honestly say that I have never had a celebrity crush but I have had crush in the past. I guess the news came to me as a big surprise and as I have been (very severely) stalked before so it triggered very bad memories. I have actually gone to a couple of dates with this lady since this occurrence and she is a delicious woman... I just have explained her that for me relationships do not happen from today to tomorrow but till now she is a keeper By the way I saw your message in another thread but it was already closed and I could not answer.. when you come back to The Netherlands let me know and it will be a pleasure to drink a beer with you Edited July 26, 2013 by therhythm
PlumPrincess Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 Yes, I have had people having crush on me and I have had crush on someone but I knew those people... I never had a crush on someone I have seen maybe 3 times in my whole life... Maybe it came to me in a wrong way but yes... it turned me off... I am sick of not being able to just enjoy myself without people reading wrong signals from me... I am very cautious with whom I have a romance (not love) and this kind of signals are a big "no no". Some people find it weird that people who hardly know them have a crush on them and others find it weird that these people don't mind making out with the same person they also barely know. That's just the way it is.
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