lexxxxxy Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 (edited) Hey guys quick background story we were together for 5.5years and have been on no contact 4months now and she broke that tonite by calling me. Long story short she cheated on me once with her ex (hookup n bj far as i know) n had told me 6months later and when she told me things just went down from there, i felt heartbroken, betrayed and couldnt believe it. I was always loyal, always good to her, we were best friends and used to spend almost every day together. She broke it off with me on valentines day and didnt even say happy birthday to me week later when i had it. Well tonite i got a phone call from her she is on holidays with her workmate in New Zealand skiing i live in Australia. She seemed like she had a few drinks, She asked me how i was, what ive been upto, asked about the puppy i bought just before she broke up with me which i gave away, asked me whether id been dating which i said no because i havnt been, she said she hasn't either. She told me she thinks about me all the time and has been wanting to call me for a while now. she admitted she called me few times late at night on blocked number and when i said hello she hanged up. She asked me if i remember some good times we shared like when we went to some music festivals together n stuff i said yeh of cource... she told me about her little brother playing football now and she said how i said i would pick him up from school as someone was bullying him i said i sort him out she was just asking if i remember these things... as if i would forget??? She told me she would love to meet up when she get back in a week and i somewhat said yes indirectly. She also told me she hasnt felt right sinse we broke up and everything she did didnt feel right without me and that she felt really weird not having me in her life and being able to talk to me. she asked me if i remember it was her birthday 2 days ago and i said what do you think... i didnt wish her happy bday as she didnt me. Im just very confused on what to do? what her intentions are? i really dont want to get hurt again and i do still love her and miss her alot i dont want to seem like im running back to her after how she hurt me. What do you guys think of all this??? Edited July 1, 2013 by lexxxxxy
Storm_Chaser Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 Don't buy into this crap! I'm telling you, my ex girlfriend did the same **** only to a worse degree. If she loved you and had respect for you, she wouldn't have given her ex a bj. I want you to take the advice that I haven't taken myself, so that you can save yourself some heartache: just don't go there. She had her chance. She made her choices. She broke-up with you. I say you find someone worthy of your faithfulness, love and respect and forget about your ex.
Nyclovin Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 She blew another dude! Need anyone else really say anything more!!!
Chi townD Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 What do I think? She drunk dialed you and probably woke up the next morning embarassed and regretting it.
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