growingtiredchick Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 Hey everyone! I was dating my ex for 2 months short of 4 years. We've had our ups and downs. when we both met we were in the same boat, just looking to have fun. Over time things got serious and I decided to move with him across the country so that he could be closer o his family and daughter. Being supportive and in love i followed him and fell in love with his family. Being in a new city made it a bit difficult for me. I went from being a social butterfly to a hermit crab and i loved it. Long story short, he broke up with me Friday because according to him I dont know what it means to be in a relationship. i asked him to give me another chance, he said no and I NEED to get a ticket back home. On Saturday he slept in my bed which he stopped doing over a year ago and decided he wanted to have sex with me. So we had sex, I had sex because I thought it was his way of saying lets get back together, but i was wrong because this morning after I made him breakfast to take to work he asked me if I've booked my tickets. Of course I cried. I don;t want out relationship to end. I lost everything because I decided to move away with him and now I feel like he's throwing it all away. i am an idiot but i want to make our relationship work even though he seems pretty set in his decision. I don;t know what to tell him to make him see that I truly love him and that I don;t want US to end.
Toddbt12y1 Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 Wow! This Guy sounds like a jerk! I am sorry to hear it. How great of you...move for him. Be for his family. You gave up a lot...and don't know what a relationship is? Bah! He didn't give you chances....Seems to me like he got bored or found someone else.... He is a jerk. He used you in the end for sex. Told you to leave...you made him breakfast, and felt like he loved you all over again. That makes him a jerk to me. Never let an ex sleep with you...if it's in hopes that they will love you again. Love isn't something you can force out of him. He is a jerk...who didn't care for you as he should have. Couple of questions: 1) How often have you two gone out as a couple?(dates) 2) how often did you two argue? 3) how communicative were both of you of relation issues? Don't beat yourself up too much. He indeed is a jerk..
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