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When I'm being myself I tend to attract either VERY old men, or homeless men...

 

no idea why this is! haha.

 

 

I frequently have old men (I'm talking 70+) come into my work, and as they're leaving they say how they wish they could take me home with them. Flattering to be complimented but.... =/

 

 

Homeless men will catcall me or tell me I smell nice. But once again... =/

 

 

If I could shave about 40 years off the men who are attracted to me I'd be in good shape! But for whatever reason I can't attract men my own age...

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Guys who I've actually dated...not guys who've just asked me out or hit on me or we went out 3x or whatever...the guys I've actually dated have been quite similar to me and each other.

 

I always have dated...reformed bad boys. And I'm a reformed party girl. It ends up being a weird bonding thing, like we just GET where each other has been and is at now.

 

and all the guys I've dated have been very smart, very outgoing, very funny (I guess that's how they ended up "bad boys" lol).

 

that's what I attract when I am myself--very intelligent and hilarious former bad boys.

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So how does one fuse their core character with their social persona?

I refer to my core character constantly through my social persona. I suppose I feel confident enough to do so as I've received positive feedback from men over the years.

 

My core character is direct and assertive so the social persona just sells it really as explained in dragoness's thread. I've learned to introduce it slowly to men I find attractive through my sense of humour. I find that it screens out the passive aggressive ones early on because they don't like it.

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When I'm being myself I tend to attract either VERY old men, or homeless men...

 

no idea why this is! haha.

 

 

I frequently have old men (I'm talking 70+) come into my work, and as they're leaving they say how they wish they could take me home with them. Flattering to be complimented but.... =/

 

You have a kind as well as pretty face. A lot of those guys will have been through the mill, and really seen the best and worst of human nature. So they probably appreciate you just for sending out friendly, good person vibes.

 

Laughed at ES's "conspiracy theorists" posts. I've attracted a few of them too. Also, having an eye for a bargain has sometimes won me the approval of skinflints. I would likely be an ideal match for a tight-fisted hippy who wants to have lengthy stoner conversations and giggling sessions with me without having to share out his weed. I still don't quite understand how he could have let go of me.

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When I'm being myself I tend to attract either VERY old men, or homeless men...

 

no idea why this is! haha.

 

 

I frequently have old men (I'm talking 70+) come into my work, and as they're leaving they say how they wish they could take me home with them. Flattering to be complimented but.... =/

 

 

Homeless men will catcall me or tell me I smell nice. But once again... =/

 

 

If I could shave about 40 years off the men who are attracted to me I'd be in good shape! But for whatever reason I can't attract men my own age...

 

Oh I bet you attract plenty of guys your age. Big thing I have found about being a 30 year old guy is that I am a lot more conservative now when it comes to girls. I think a lot of guys are the same way.

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Definitely highly intelligent it seems

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