David4949 Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years. It has been, for the most part, a pretty decent time. Except for in the beginning, when we were not officially anything, and she kissed two guys. The only reason this did not really bother me was because I thought we were just friends. Since this point, there has not been too any crazy situations. Except i feel she gets a little too flirty when she drinks. She also sometimes on a few (4-5) occasions blacked out from drinking, and she does not remember anything that happened. This concerns me because this is where random people could potentially take advantage of her. Today for example, she sent me a video of all of them at some club. It just bothers me to think she could be out their dancing with other guys. I guess I am afraid of her going to Spain, getting trashed, and being taken advantage by other people (guys). Who knows? maybe even meet someone else. She has been there for almost a week now (4 weeks left), and i have really only communicated with her through texts and 1 call, I am trying to give her space so im not constantly bothering her about what shes doing and whos shes with. I am just afraid something might happen! sorry this is so sporadic!
justwhoiam Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 There's just so much you can do, which is: worrying. But anyway, you are accepting of a girl getting drunk and backing out frequently, to the point that she doesn't remember anything... that can lead to potentially anything (getting abused, raped, and even riskier behavior for her and others). Honestly, her dancing with other guys is the minor of your problems.
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