Bf being mean to me on purpose to push me away,what do i do? :(?

[HappyendGirl]

He's been really mean to be for the past couple of months doing everything to push me away but i see that hes doing it on purpose.He even told me that hes mean to me because hes trying to push me away.He said he wishes i'd get sick of him and i should move on before he pushes me away himself.He also said he has commitment issues.Idk what to do guys :(Why cant he just break up with me instead of doing everything to push me away???I keep proving to him how much i love him and i wouldnt hurt him and that doesnt work :(he pushes me away further.Should i just completely leave him alone and even make him think that i'm moving on?I'm just so emotionally drained,i've proved so much but have gotten nothing in return

[Woggle]

Give him what he wants and go away. Why put up with this?

[Lani]

He's being a coward.

Sounds to me like he wants to break up, but is too weak to do it himself.

 

Take control of the situation and get rid of him. Be the brave one and walk away.

It won't be easy, but you'll thank yourself for it later.

[HappyendGirl]

He's being a coward.

Sounds to me like he wants to break up, but is too weak to do it himself.

 

Take control of the situation and get rid of him. Be the brave one and walk away.

It won't be easy, but you'll thank yourself for it later.

 

Thanks for the advice.It's so hard

[Lani]

Thanks for the advice.It's so hard

 

It is hard.

I've been there, and I know. I waited until he completely beat me down and I lost all my self confidence. Please get out before he does this to you. You deserve better.

[HappyendGirl]

It is hard.

I've been there, and I know. I waited until he completely beat me down and I lost all my self confidence. Please get out before he does this to you. You deserve better.

 

I'm sorry you had to go through that:(I also feel worthless,he has made me feel worthless :(is it a form of abuse?like emotional abuse?

[Lani]

I'm sorry you had to go through that:(I also feel worthless,he has made me feel worthless :(is it a form of abuse?like emotional abuse?

 

Yes, of course it is.

I'm sorry you have to go through this. It's a really difficult thing, but you need to be strong enough to say goodbye. And then go no contact, because nothing he can say from here will make this ok.

[Giha]

Leave him and move on. He's a coward and also kind of an a-hole for pulling this kind of crap.

[hoping2heal]

What are you hanging on for?

 

He has issues that have nothing to do with you. You didn't cause them. You aren't responsible for them and you can't fix them. That's something he must choose either to acknowledge himself and get help, or continue to let those issues dominate and dictate his relationships for the rest of his life. Either way, that's all on him and up to him. You aren't getting anything from the relationship any longer. You give and give and prove and prove for what? He doesn't want to stay in the relationship, he clearly has a problem with stability in his relationships and doesn't know how to handle a relationship where hurt and uncertainty aren't a normal part of the dynamic. That will of course be exhausting for any other person - and you've already admitted it has become just that. The only thing left to salvage is yourself and that is up to you.

[Pisces13]

Dump his ass. Obviously isn't mature enough to be in a relationship anyway.