omarthedude Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 Okay, so I've been on this forum before and I remember complaining about how my date didn't go that well and was left anxious for a lot of things. But I'm proud to say that my approach and personality both have improved so much more and I'm able to talk to a lot of girls, get their numbers, and if we hit it off well, go out. This one in particular that I just went out with, I feel is a keeper and she has an amazing personality. I just need some quick advice. I took this girl out today - I had made her a promise to take her to this really cool froyo place - we enjoyed it lots. Heck, we even went out for a stroll after, I even took her by her hand. All the while laughing and having a good time. Her mom kept calling her on the phone and she would ask to be excused, and apologize after and then grab my hand quickly and we'd resume. It was getting on my nerves, and I think she saw it. She said, "I will make it up to you, I promise. I had a really bad day today but even then I wanted to see you even if it was for a little bit." She immediately asked if I was free on Saturday for a movie. I said I wasn't sure but will let her know (I have to go to the US for a few days so...). Essentially, she had promised her cousin that they'd go to watch a movie later during the day so our date lasted like 2 hours. All the time, we were intimate. We'd stare into each other's eyes and talk like we were in love or something. Of course, I made sure that I wasn't being needy or anything. I was just going with the flow. She kept on saying how she wished I wasn't angry with her about the rush and the short length of the date. I ignored gently ('cause hey, it was inconvenient since I'm taking my time out to see you and you promised your cousin to go to a movie...what's wrong with you? lol) Here's the problem. We got in her car and she was dropping me off, and I said, "So...no good bye kiss? Haha. You've got a lot of things to make up for, darlin'" - In a sarcastic and aloof tone and laughing. She said, "Not on the first date" she giggled and we hugged, I got out, and left. (We planned for next Saturday for the movie during the date. I said, "Hey let's go watch Monsters University!" and she quickly agreed) So, after she's done with the movie, should I be the one to contact her? I'm heading for New York tomorrow and will be away for a few days. Should I contact her after that? Does the kiss - which she gently refused to give on the first date - matter? How should I proceed? Or rather, what should I expect? Ladies and gents, have at it. Thanks
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