gogo123 Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 (edited) Hi everyone im not sure this is the right section, i fell really lost i need advise. We have been dating with my girlfriend for 6 months now and everything has been great, a few day ago i found out that she got in touch with her EX. She was explaining to him that they haven't had closure and she found it really hard to get over him and still has feelings. He is away and they won't see eachother for the next 7 months but this is red flag for me and i dont know what to do. Obviously she didn't get over him. But at the same time she keep saying to me that we have something really special and she loves me. Am i just emotional band-aid for her, because he is away or something more? should i dump her straight away or should i start playing games just to make her jealous and see that i worth more than him. I really love her,but at the end of the day emotions are something that should not be toyed with. thanks!!! Edited July 1, 2013 by gogo123
Author gogo123 Posted July 1, 2013 Author Posted July 1, 2013 yes but it's not that simple, coz we live together and kinda wanna give her a chance!
shexy Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 You've only been together 6 months and you're living together already? She already told you she still has feelings for her ex....that's your answer right there. She's not over him, you're just the rebound guy.
Author gogo123 Posted July 1, 2013 Author Posted July 1, 2013 yes we do live together, but i don't understand how can you spend so much time with someone and be such a slapper at the same time. she keep saying that she loves me.Honestly it's beyond me.
Author gogo123 Posted July 1, 2013 Author Posted July 1, 2013 come on guys give me more points of view here. you reckon there is need to speak with her about all of this or just dump her painfully and leave her in the ditch. just to make my point that she shouldn't has played with my feelings. i'm realising this is the easiest thing to do. but there must be other options.
Author gogo123 Posted July 1, 2013 Author Posted July 1, 2013 no she doesn't know that i know! i will speak with her. will keep you posted:))) 1
TheGuard13 Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 If she's using the term "closure", she means she wants to be able to process what happened, end her feelings for him and move on with her life. Yes, I would talk about her.
Author gogo123 Posted July 1, 2013 Author Posted July 1, 2013 yes she used "closure" which make me think that maybe her real purpose is just to finish and move on. But at the same time i feel that might be not only that. Im sure she is a nice person and just looking for advice, coz i'm really confused and dont know what to think.
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