ShyOne82 Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 I have a crush on a worker at my job who is in another department. I don't see him all the time, but when I do he always has a smile on his face. Didn't notice him at first. One day he walked passed my co-workers and I smiling.. so I stopped him in his tracks and told him he was so handsome. I would've never done that if I was by myself.. for a few months since then he has been saying hi to me if we walk passed each other or from a distance. I want to get to know him more OUTSIDE of work as I hold back because so much nosey ppl are around. I kinda need to know if hes married or not and if he wants to become friends at least. I don't feel comfortable asking him personal info in a work setting. Couple days ago I gained enough courage to talk to him but it was a bullsht conversation. When he said hi to me I called him over and told him that I saw him jogging in the neighborhood and suggested we work out together one day (a lame tactic to get him alone i guess) He said he was going to the gym bewteen 5-8 on monday.. I agreed to meet him.. didnt realize until later I am working around that time! I wanted to kill myself lol So NOW IDK what to do or say. This has been dragging for too long.. i just want to know if hes taken or not. Another thing is he is hispanic.. I think.. I dont know his ethnicity. At first I thought he was middle eastern. My co-worker told me he is def spanish based on his accent. So this is a challenge for as I have always felt spanish men are more attracted to their own kind or white women. Should I suggest a meetup instead of going to the gym? If he rejects it then I guess that shows hes not interested, right? Or should I reschedule the gym thing? I just want the setting to be right so I can get to know him and get the answers I need. Sorry for the long post.
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