Danjnr Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 Hi guys and girls, I have tried to stay tough but can not cope with this anymore. I have broken up with my ex and I have tried to move on but the thought of touching anyone else Knicks me sick. We have constantly kept talking about us which has been hard but it was better than her being out of my life. Unfortunately she slept with someone last week which she took pride in telling me and sent screenshots of their conversations along with what they did and how etc. I can not cope with this and have had a lot of negative thoughts in my head such as ending it just so I don't feel like this anymore. Please help or give me advice as I am a little desperate at the moment. Thank you
yoghurtsandlimes Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 Sending screen shots is just cruel. The only reason she would have done that is to hurt you. She is trying to make you hurt on purpose. I know you will still having feelings for her- but try and move on from her, as someone who hurts you on purpose, is someone who isn't worth having in your life.
SimonSerenade Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 I dated somebody like that very briefly a long time a go, trust me man, talking to her ain't going to do you any good, the girl I was with used to tell me sex stories, doing it at parties, doing it in the snow on a field, she had them all, the worst thing I did was keep her around, girls like that get a sick twisted sensation from seeing your jaw drop in disbelief at how cruel their words and actions can be, abandon your feelings for this girl and don't take it personally, she's got some messed up issues she needs to take up with satan himself, don't try to understand this girl, that's how pychopaths are made.
aloneinaz Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 You need to block her, change your number, email, facebook, etc.. She's got serious issues for sure to do something so crappy. In the mean time, seek therapy or read some books on how to cope with the break up. Don't do anything silly like hurting yourself. NO ONE IS worth that. The sooner you block all means for her to contact you and go NC with her, you'll start to feel better. Only time will help you with this but it gets better each week. Hang in there and if you really feel like hurting yourself, PLEASE call a crisis hotline so they can help you.
hoping2heal Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 Hi guys and girls, I have tried to stay tough but can not cope with this anymore. I have broken up with my ex and I have tried to move on but the thought of touching anyone else Knicks me sick. We have constantly kept talking about us which has been hard but it was better than her being out of my life. Unfortunately she slept with someone last week which she took pride in telling me and sent screenshots of their conversations along with what they did and how etc. I can not cope with this and have had a lot of negative thoughts in my head such as ending it just so I don't feel like this anymore. Please help or give me advice as I am a little desperate at the moment. Thank you Danjnr, Your circumstances are hopefully extreme. By that I mean, I would hope not all dumpers are this cruel. What your ex did was tasteless and classless and honey you could be a poster child for NC. This is the kind of crap NC helps you avoid! You said it's better than not having her in your life; well you might not have been happy but weren't you at least a feeling above what you're feeling now after she did this? Your ex's behavior is cruel, immature, vindictive and just a terrible wad of puke. If you are feeling that helpless it's time to go seek professional health.
chupichulo Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 How old are you ? Forgive me if I sound patronising but you're still pretty young, right ? Otherwise you wouldn't be talking about topping yourself. If I could go back in time and give advice to my younger self, one thing I would say is you should never never never get so hung up on one girl. Why not ? Because there are sooooo many others !!! Makes me laugh when I hear Justin Bieber singing, "Baby baby baby... thought you'd always be mine." Yeah right ! Like your girlfriend at 16 years old is going to be with you forever. Your relationship is finished. You know what ? It's not the end of the world. Maybe it seems like it is right now but you spend some time feeling like crap about it..... then you grow a pair and you move on. There can't be any problem so great that you can't just walk away from it and things will get better.... someday. Especially if you're still in your teens or twenty something. You still gonna be carrying a torch for this girl when you're 40 ? No, I'll put my money on you're married to somebody else with 2 lovely kids and you can hardly even remember her name. and suicide??? What a ****ty thing to do to your parents !
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