littlelaxer Posted October 18, 2004 Posted October 18, 2004 ok so i have been tryin to do the no contact thing with my ex. we havnt talked since the 6th becuaes i wont answer his calls and reply to his texts. there has been a call and two texts since then, always a break in between maybe he was tryin to see if i was gonna reply.... the last i heard of him he text me "ok then." i wasnt expecting to hear from him for a good amount of time becuase he went back to visit his family this week well last night around 11 he texted me "so is this how its gonna be." i am tryin not to read into it, but i dont know if i should not respond or if i should. and if i should what should i say. i want him to miss me, and start to realize that im not sitting around waiting for him. i was thinking maybe him going home and us not talking would make it all sink in and he would start to think about our break up and stuff. what should i do...
Urban Rubble01 Posted October 18, 2004 Posted October 18, 2004 Well, I think it's unhealthy to play games like that. Yeah, not calling for awhile wa good, but if he's trying to get in contact with I can't understand why you wouldn't respond.
Quilly Posted October 18, 2004 Posted October 18, 2004 Are you wanting him back? Did you tell him you were going to be doing no contact or did you just start doing? It sounds like he's confused about this and getting more frustrated by the minute. I wouldn't think that would be a good thing if you are in fact wanting him back. Tell him what it is you are wanting... time apart for both of you to reflect on your relationship. If it helps, set a deadline for when he can contact you.
Author littlelaxer Posted October 18, 2004 Author Posted October 18, 2004 yea good ideas guys! i sent him something back. i said that i just needed time thats all.............and he texted me right back saying.......yeh ok. Geez hes the one who broke up with me right, why is he being mean? i do want him back but i dont want to sound needy or anything like that. ive left him alone from the beginging of all this, and thats all i can really do.
head/heels Posted October 18, 2004 Posted October 18, 2004 are you sure you dont want him back?? why not ?
Author littlelaxer Posted October 18, 2004 Author Posted October 18, 2004 no i do want him back, but i dont know what he expects from me u know, i cant be friends. not now atleast. he said he doesnt know what he wants, and not ready for a long term relationphip after a year. so i dont know what to do...............i guess let time go by and see right??
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