Doobs Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 Hello everyone how are all of you? Life's good remember that and try keep happy through the tough times Anyway I need to vent something I have a fantastic 5 year old boy with my ex (I was 22, she was 20). We broke up before he was born and I have been treated like crap ever since. I have and will always loved him dearly and have been there since day one (she stopped me seeing him at the start and moved in with some strange man), never missed my time or maintenance. I have played their way (her and her family) since day one. Never brought this to court etc. I'm a nice guy, generous and a big soppy heart and I feel she takes advantage of that. Some of the stuff she has done to me and put me through has been really unbelievable. Class A **** she is to me. I care about her as my child mother but that's it. The taught of reconciliation makes me feel sick. I couldn't go back there after all she's done. Anyway she always has a man and I have been single a long time now. I have not had a serious relationship since. Recession hit few years ago, lost my job and moved back home. My friends all emigrated for work and I stayed for my son. I went to college to get a degree (one year left to go ) and have been struggling financially and socially for the past 3 years. I just want to know will I ever be rid of her like when my sons 18? She has never said sorry for anything she has done. She's likes to make me jealous and wreck with my head and she lies to me all the time. I don't stick up for myself a lot because I don't want to lose my son but when I do, her and her family think I still love her and tell me to move on (arrghh ffs) I'm not looking for praise from her. I just want to be treated with respect. She is always fishing or playing games to see if I do still hold a candle for her. Honestly I might have some sort of feelings there but I would never go back there that be too weird and a bad idea. Basically I'm just looking for some tips that might keep her of my back?? I know it prob sounds a little crazy but she did something again today and it's just like wtf its been 6 years since we were a couple. I have been there for both of yous since and have done everything that's asked of me and more. I just want to be respected. Rant over. Thanks for listening. God bless you all
Author Doobs Posted June 30, 2013 Author Posted June 30, 2013 Thank you. I never bring 'us' up.Any contact from me would be strictly about my son. She on the other hand tells me more than I want/should know. I must try working on cutting her off quicker before she starts to talk cr@p haha She knows I'm not rude and will listen to her (hate that trait sometimes lol) Like you have said as my son gets older communication will fade so that's good. I'll cope until then. Thanks
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