theonlyjuan Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 I have not seen my ex for 3 weeks since we broke up. I saw her dad during the week when he come to my workplace. I saw him again today and had a chat with him. Few hours later my ex walks around the corner, shopping on her own. She didnt look like she had bought much and I have no idea what she was doing around my area. She said hi. It was such a shock she caught me off guard. I said hi back and she said " you alright? " n I was just like " yeah thanks u? " that was it. I felt like going over n saying hi properly, but I didn't. It probably looks like I was playing it cool but it wasn't intended. I was caught off guard and I felt like I was being bit cold. Bit strange I see her dad then she turns up a few hours later... Hate awkward situations What should I do? If anything
aloneinaz Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 You should do nothing. Just cause you saw her doesn't change a thing.
Author theonlyjuan Posted June 30, 2013 Author Posted June 30, 2013 Well we are meant to be staying friends but I have made little effort lately
aloneinaz Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 Well we are meant to be staying friends but I have made little effort lately Makes no since to be friends with someone who dumped you so soon after a break up. A couple of years down the road? Maybe but not so soon. You need to heal and move on to someone who will love you for you. She clearly didn't which is why she dumped you.
Author theonlyjuan Posted June 30, 2013 Author Posted June 30, 2013 Yeah I know. It's just hard. She was honest with me and didn't do anything wrong. I just feel awful for being a bit cold. Gone from having such good times together to just a " hi " It doesn't seem right. Seeing her wasn't as bad as i thought it would be, so that's a relief
aloneinaz Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 Yeah I know. It's just hard. She was honest with me and didn't do anything wrong. I just feel awful for being a bit cold. Gone from having such good times together to just a " hi " It doesn't seem right. Seeing her wasn't as bad as i thought it would be, so that's a relief I feel you my man.. It's hard to believe how your ex can tell you they love you and we're in this for the long haul, only to have her end it when she was called out for continuing to be an ass to me when she was tired or stressed. My ex told me she loved me and hugged me 90 minutes before the conversation that ended it. What I learned is to NOT believe so much in peoples words but to put more meaning into their actions. Her actions and treatment of me the last 2 months were polar opposite of her words. As I've said many times here, I'm just mad that I didn't DUMP her toxic ass first. I was SSOO close a couple of times during the last two months. Oh well, it shouldn't matter who dumped who at this point. Someone else can deal w/her BS.
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