shinej Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 This girl is my colleague and she is kind innocent, nerd and good in behavior . I proposed her, she didn't tell anything, neither I didn't ask whether she loves me.. she slowly started avoiding me, When I talk... she talk kind of relationship, after 2 days I thought of calling her and I called around 8 pm, she picked the phone, then asked WHY you are AVOIDING ME?, she said I"M NOT AVOIDING U, YOU MISINTERPRETED...she was very nervous and I asked her is there any problem talking, then she said YA, WE CAN TALK TOMOROW AT OFFICE... NEXT DAY AT OFFICE she scolded me for calling her, and she had told me earlier to not to call her because hr parents are so strict... SHE :: "YOUR ARE CREATING PROBLEMS CALLING ME, I GOT NICE SCOLDINGS FROM MY DAD, I TOLD YOU NOT TO CALL, didn't I?... IF you WANT TO TALK, TALK IN OFFICE, don't EVER CALL" I didn't say a word because it was my mistake and she scolded me in front of others and they all don't know the reason because we speak in our language... malayalam... AFTER 2 DAYS, I SPOKE TO HER IN OFFICE... "SORRY I WILL NOT CALL AGAIN, IT WAS A MISTAKE AND YOU WOULD HAVE NOT SCOLDED ME IN PUBLIC, ALL GUYS WERE LOOKING AT ME, LAUGHING, YOU CAN CALL ME WHEN you FEEL LIKE BLASTING AT ME, PLEASE don't INSULT IN PUBLIC" her response : "SORRY I didn't MEAN TO HURT YOU, INSULT YOU, I WAS VERY ANGRY ON YOU THAT DAY" since then I'm not talking to her, its almost a week we are not talking... I sit behind her in office, she turns back for something she want and just have a glimpse at me... she turns 2-3 times a day to glimpse, and will not stare... on this Sunday, when I was asking a doubt to my collegue she turned and stared for 5 seconds, whenever I talk she turns and glimpse at me... DO I NEED TO TALK TO HER? WHY SHE IS TURNING AND GLIMPSING? DOES SHE EXPECT ME TO TALK TO HER, IS THAT A GREEN SIGNAL SAYING, YOU CAN TALK TO ME, I'm INTERESTED? DOES SHE FEEL FOR ME? PLEASE ANSWER ASAP! SO I CAN PROCEED ACCORDING TO YOUR ANSWERS... Read more at Do I NEED TO TALK FIRST? - GirlsAskGuys.com
Betty7 Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 Hi! I don't know anything about your culture or how men and women interact. If she is always looking at you when you talk I think that's an indication that she likes you. If her parents are strict and she yelled at you she was just trying to put up her boundaries of what behaviour is ok. If you like her I think you should still try and be with her until she tells you that she doesn't want to.
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