Jerod D Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 Hello everyone, this is my very first time on any kind of website like this. I'm writing this because I really have nowhere else to turn. Me and my ex recently broke up about a month and a half ago, I never really have anyone to talk to anymore about my problems because, well everything I hear from my friends just annoys the **** out of me. All they basically tell me to do is go and **** the next girl I see. I'm not that kind of guy, AT ALL. anyways the story is that I'm 18 and was in a relationship with my ex for 2 years. We have a beautiful daughter together and I love her more then anything in this world! We broke up because one day we had a small fight over the fact that I haven't been able to see my daughter in a few days. I don't have a car and her mother lives with her parents who don't like me very much (never met me by the way) and don't like me at that house. Basically she comes from the kind of family where money is everything. I don't come from wealth so they assume I'm some loser with no future. I said if she didn't bring her to me I would go get her for the night somehow. (Not kidnap!) Just an overnight with my daughter. The second I said that my ex went to a lawyer and told me I couldn't see her again until I signed a stipulation agreement giving her full custody and me 8 hours a week with my daughter. I've been nothing but a good dad and did nothing to deserve what she is trying to do to me. I'm getting off topic though what I'm saying is for the past month and a half or so my ex has been doing some really awful things to me for reasons unknown, yet I still feel like we belong together. I truly thought I would marry this woman before all of this stuff happened. I don't speak to her much cuz we just fight but Idk if I actually want to be with her still or if I'm just lonely and insecure. I feel like I couldn't get any other woman even if I tried because due to my age and the fact that I have a child most girls would probably call that a deal breaker. in my mind at least. I'm tired of being alone all the time and consuming myself in thought. Am I a fool for thinking I belong with a girl who has no problem stomping on my heart to get what she wants? Are there any girls out there that would accept the fact that I'm a father and still like me for me? I'm sorry if I'm not good explaining my problems I don't do this much lol I would just really love some good advice right now on how I should deal with everything.
flitzanu Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 it sounds like yes, she is trying to push you out of her life.
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