RoyToy Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 My 65 year old husband decided spur if the moment to end our marriage We have been together since 2009 We got married 6-16-2012 We have been residing together in deep east Texas on our houseboat I Took a trip to central Illinois for the birth of my grand baby My husband called me day before our anniversary 6-15-2013 And told me not to come back home ever because he has been unhappy For 6 mos This was the first that I heard of it He closed our bank account before he called me I love him very much He says he loves me and is not going to divorce me But he don't ever want me to come home He says he does not want to live with anyone However he did say he would like me to visit him a couple times A year for a couple week As of now I am homeless with no drivers licsence or car or job He has been sending me $200.00 Twice a month but this goes mostly on food How can I fix this we have both been very happy until Apparently six mos ago when he all if a sudden felt unhappy I want my life back with my husband I need advice quick !!!
CC12 Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 I don't have any advice on how to get your husband back. He seems to have been very clear that he doesn't want you back (except for a couple of weeks a year, apparently? That's weird, and you shouldn't go along with it.) So I think you should focus on being independent. You'll need a job. His 200 bucks isn't going to last forever. Expect for those payments to stop at any time. Whether or not you get your life back with your husband, you should still retain a good amount of independence, just in case this happens again. And if it happens again, I'd like for you to note that your husband cannot legally just throw you out of your home or close bank accounts you have access to. You do have rights, and I encourage you to learn what they are. A lawyer would help you with this. 1
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