buzzie2 Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 When you think back to all the major romantic relationships you have had in your life, are you the one that got dumped first- or were you the one to do the dumping?
InsaneTrombone Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 I'm still young, 23, but I've typically been the one to be dumped first. I used to be pretty insecure with myself and was always a giver. I've learned to love myself more, gain confidence in who I am and what I believe in, and thus be a little more selfish in relationships. I definitely don't doubt my ability to end a relationship now if I feel it isn't working for me.
LOSTnMT Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 I am extremely loyal and honest so yes I am definitely the one that gets dumped first. I have dumped a few women back in college but for the most part I have always known what I wanted and when I found it I stick around and dont cheat, lie or do other things that would break up a relationship.
TheZebra Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 I usually get broken up with first because I'm always the fighter for the relationship.. I want to make it work, want to try new things to keep the romance alive, etc, and the guy gives up. Very frustrating considering my last relationship was a 5 year one and towards the end I was the only one who cared about trying to keep it going and reviving it... he just gave up. Whatever, his loss! 1
rocketman122 Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 me too. I fight to keep it alive. but when you dont have a partner in the relationship it wont work. my GF seems to give up very easily.
ses Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 The only breakup I've had was mutual. I wanted to fight for the relationship but he was so unhappy that it was better to separate. I don't have enough experience compared to others but I'm pretty stubborn so I'd be the one to not want to let go until all was said and done.
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