MrCastle Posted July 1, 2013 Share Posted July 1, 2013 : ))) I hope that was not meant as it sounded although of course everyone we meet can't be the one or even one we like. No offense taken. I often like teasing Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted July 1, 2013 Share Posted July 1, 2013 Yeah. But not every woman is my type. It's pretty bad bluegreen. Women all over the world are tossing and turning all night thinking "Sigh, that Castle is something else. If only I could have him. :(" :laugh: 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MrCastle Posted July 1, 2013 Share Posted July 1, 2013 It's pretty bad bluegreen. Women all over the world are tossing and turning all night thinking "Sigh, that Castle is something else. If only I could have him. :(" :laugh: Don't be silly, ES. Not every country speaks english. For what you said to be accurate, you would have to present that statement in every language. And hell, for good measure, even computers are saying 011100010101100101 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 1, 2013 Author Share Posted July 1, 2013 Now that I think of I prefer my guys with pout lips : ))) yeah afraid am gonna have to say NO to mister am every woman's type Link to post Share on other sites
MrCastle Posted July 1, 2013 Share Posted July 1, 2013 Now that I think of I prefer my guys with pout lips : ))) yeah afraid am gonna have to say NO to mister am every woman's type Ha! You've never seen a picture of me! I can pout! Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 1, 2013 Author Share Posted July 1, 2013 Gimme then show me wrong am reasonable girl I can change my mind 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TG1 Posted July 1, 2013 Share Posted July 1, 2013 Oh sorry I was just wondering why do guys take rejection from a girl so hard and turn insulting because of it. I just had a few months friendship with a guy ruined because of this Maybe because he really wanted something more and the fact of the matter is, is that with us guys we don't take rejection well, like it is a fact of life Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 2, 2013 Author Share Posted July 2, 2013 Maybe because he really wanted something more and the fact of the matter is, is that with us guys we don't take rejection well, like it is a fact of life Sounds like lousy excuse to me Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted July 2, 2013 Share Posted July 2, 2013 It's not men. It's immature people. I have rejected advances from women several times and my sexuality was then immediately called into question by them. And not exactly in a non confrontational, inquisitive "do you think maybe you are a homosexual?" My sexuality should be called into question, but because I sing along to Lana Del Rey songs, not because I turn down women I'm not attracted to, thank you very much. I agree that it's about IMMATURITY and not about gender. I'm seeing a theme here with guys saying women are used to offers rolling in and act SO much worse when they are rejected. Sure, some women do act ridiculous, but plenty of women accept rejection with grace. Whenever I was rejected, sure it stung and was embarassing but all I can do is smile, wish them the best, and walk away from the situation. Then cry my eyes out for a bit once alone, lol. The rare time when I do the approaching and initiating its because I've already found myself very much so liking that person, making the rejection that much harder. I'm sympathetic to the humiliation guys, Ive been there... just keep it classy and accept it with grace. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Eddie Edirol Posted July 2, 2013 Share Posted July 2, 2013 So somehow it seems like HE is poor one and not me Just wait until someone says I should apologize to him as well I was not harsh was not leading him on damn it I know how girls can be and I was not like that. I just might have said wrong thing when he provoked me and it went to hell from there He probably did provoke you, but you dont stay friends with a guy that you know is leaning towards trying to date you, thats not a friendship. If you told him youre not interested, and he is still trying, you say "Cya later, we cant be friends" and let him go. Guys like this will continue to try until you push them away, and to them, youre leading them on by acknowledging them. Look elsewhere for friends. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 2, 2013 Author Share Posted July 2, 2013 He probably did provoke you, but you dont stay friends with a guy that you know is leaning towards trying to date you, thats not a friendship. If you told him youre not interested, and he is still trying, you say "Cya later, we cant be friends" and let him go. Guys like this will continue to try until you push them away, and to them, youre leading them on by acknowledging them. Look elsewhere for friends. Actually I did offered that and he would not have hear about it and more then few times I'll handle it he would say and so on so it was not like this is my fault. He is at least by age an adult he knew what he was doing and saying Link to post Share on other sites
dizy Posted July 2, 2013 Share Posted July 2, 2013 Definitively not specific to guys. Rejections are difficult to handle for everyone. It takes a lot of maturity to handle them gracefully. How the other person reacts can also make things more easy/difficult. Women can have a double standard thinking that they shouldn't get rejected because they are women and guys want sex all the time anyways. not a gender specific situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 2, 2013 Author Share Posted July 2, 2013 I fortunately have never been that woman Link to post Share on other sites
Southern Cal Dude Posted July 2, 2013 Share Posted July 2, 2013 Not everyone handles rejection well. I've seen women go completely apesh*t and abuse the poor guy. I've also seen guys call the woman every name under the sun. Not gender specific. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 2, 2013 Author Share Posted July 2, 2013 I just can't imagine woman doing that not saying its not true but just can't she is a woman for crying out loud a lady Link to post Share on other sites
Southern Cal Dude Posted July 2, 2013 Share Posted July 2, 2013 I just can't imagine woman doing that not saying its not true but just can't she is a woman for crying out loud a lady 666 posts. Anyway, yeah I've seen it happen more than once. Oddly enough, I've seen it from beautiful women not used to being rejected. I guess when you grow up being placed on a pedestal since you're 12 years old, it probably hits like a ton of bricks when someone rejects you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 2, 2013 Author Share Posted July 2, 2013 Yeah it might be that all they feel are pretty and pretty is all they can give something like Kim K or Paris Hilton type. But still sad and shameful behavior for woman Link to post Share on other sites
Eddie Edirol Posted July 2, 2013 Share Posted July 2, 2013 Actually I did offered that and he would not have hear about it and more then few times I'll handle it he would say and so on so it was not like this is my fault. He is at least by age an adult he knew what he was doing and saying Um no, you cant offer it, you cant give him a choice and you have to cut him off. That part is your fault. As much as he is an adult, he is also a guy that doesnt know when to quit, and doesnt know what he is doing when it comes to leaving a woman alone that isnt interested in him. But of course, he thinks he still has a chance, because for some reason you wanted to salvage a so-called friendship. So it goes around in circles. If you knew he was only trying to date you under the guise of friendship, why did you still talk to him knowing its not a real friendship? Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 2, 2013 Author Share Posted July 2, 2013 Because I genuinely liked him as person and Friend simple as that. No I was not getting off on him wanting me am not in HS it simply was not right time for me and he knew it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 2, 2013 Author Share Posted July 2, 2013 I don't ever insult women face to face I only curse them off in my mind after they reject me. Doesn't mean I hate them I'm just pissed of they never liked me and led me on. Every man just keeps assuming woman led them on Link to post Share on other sites
aussietigerwolf Posted July 2, 2013 Share Posted July 2, 2013 i met this guy on a dating site but it never progressed any further from rarely barely chatting on fb as he simply wasn't interested... so i don't hear from him in months and I get a message... I tell him I have a boyfriend now and he screams/writes? abuse at me... i'm sure he thought i had been leading him on too but he could have had me when i was single but he made his disinterest very clear and then disappeared for months. Link to post Share on other sites
aussietigerwolf Posted July 2, 2013 Share Posted July 2, 2013 Why would a woman want a guy otherwise? To promise him sex vaguely, leech some attention off him how he tries hard for her, then when she gets bored, tell him to "**** off". Ugh. hmm... so i've been doing this all wrong!!! :laugh: my boyfriend and i have lots of sex, he gets lots of attention and i've told him to stick around. Link to post Share on other sites
Eddie Edirol Posted July 2, 2013 Share Posted July 2, 2013 Every man just keeps assuming woman led them on As long as youre hanging with a guy youre not attracted to when you KNOW he is still trying for you, yes, in his mind, you are leading him on, because he doesnt know better. It simply cant work as a friendship, you have to send him on his way. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluegreen Posted July 3, 2013 Author Share Posted July 3, 2013 As long as youre hanging with a guy youre not attracted to when you KNOW he is still trying for you, yes, in his mind, you are leading him on, because he doesnt know better. It simply cant work as a friendship, you have to send him on his way. So its his own choice to stay but our fault because we are not being b... and blowing them off Link to post Share on other sites
bac Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 Why do guys do this ? I swear five year old would not throw such a tantrum he did yet for few months he swore up and down am all that. Am somewhere between laughter tears and shock ladies guys your opinion please ? Most men do that. The longer a R, the harder men take rejection. I prefer to reject men as soon/respectful as possible to avoid the stuff. I typically let them know that they are great and have a lot of wonderful qualities. But, we are not a good match. If they want to know my reasons, I tell them that I do not want to hurt their feelings explaining my personal reasons for their rejection. Let him know that he is the best guy ever but he is just not for you. Rejected men of any age are filled with a lot of anger and aggression. And, they typically act on it if they have a chance. Link to post Share on other sites
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