Anthony9998 Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 Hey everyone My girlfriend left me 3months ago after 5 years. It's been the roughest time imaginable at the moment. We have been together since we were 17 and were now 23 We are paying off a house together and have pets, furniture and cars plus the house together It's been the most painful time in my life, I can't sleep, eat, get motivated to get out of bed, it feels like it would just be easier to end it all She left because she wants to travel and have other relationships and this hurts the most because I wasn't good enough for her. She already has another man for emotional support (there not in a relationship. But I'm pretty sure there having sex. It's only been 3months!!) And to top it off I can't cut her off, we own a house together, so she always comes back here every day to check on things, get clean clothes and then she leaves again. I feel so pathetic and useless. I have no close friends to be with because they all took her side in the breakup except one who had to leave the country so I can't even hang out with him. And I start a new job in less then 2 days. My mind is a mess, I don't know what I'm going to do, I just wanna cry all the time. I feel so depressed Can someone please help, with advice for anything? How to beat the depression, how to make friends, how to move on? Anything please because I'm so lost at the moment and I don't think I can take much more of it
Sneaky Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 I don't know much and I feel like I'm not suitable to give out advice but I still wanted to comment because this seems like a horrible situation and I feel for you. Is there something you can do to get out of the house situation? Stay somewhere else? Because that situation seems very very unhealthy.
SimonSerenade Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 Tell her she doesn't need to come round every day to check up on the place, your a grown man who's perfectly capable of running a house, fair enough you have to keep contact for the important stuff but it doesn't mean you have to do it face to face.
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