Mws Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 My ex who dumped me sent this to me after 2 months. " I was thinking about us last night and im glad we happened but im also really happy right now. I hope you are too You will always be my first love" then 2 days later i got this "Its really hard not to call you" how should i handle this
mutant Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 All she wants is to relieve her guilt. She doesn't want to continue feeling like she's a bad person for dumping you. This does not mean she wants to get back with you, she even said she's happy now.
LOSTnMT Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 Its over and she is trying to deal with guilt. If you respond she wins. This isnt about you its about her and her dealing with her problems. Trust me
Sneaky Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 I would honestly be pissed off after that first text. I agree with the rest, ignore it.
Ms.Logic Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 You shouldn't even justify this with a reply. You have better things to do love, and if you don't, find some!
Author Mws Posted June 30, 2013 Author Posted June 30, 2013 It's ****ty because I still really love her
athousandquestions Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 If you love her do not reply. If she wants to get back together (as I'm assuming you do), showing her that you are strong and independent is the best thing you can do right now.
aloneinaz Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 It's ****ty because I still really love her She dumped you and moved on. She then rubs it in your face "I'm really happy now". How do you love a person like that? You need to move on and find someone else. As soon as you do, you'll forget all about this current ex.
forgetmenot75 Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 (edited) BREADCRUMBS IGNORE DELETE FORGET ABOUT HIM MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE Hmmm...I guess she's seeing someone else, and feels guilty. Keep the power of NC. what a jerk! Edited June 30, 2013 by forgetmenot75
flitzanu Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 she just told you she's happy she dumped you. you really want to reply to that?
itto ogami Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 She might as well have texted: "I'm so happy with my new relationship I'm texting you to see if you still care. Ain't being ME wonderful?" Ignore. 1
Author Mws Posted July 1, 2013 Author Posted July 1, 2013 You guys thank you for the input. I cant help that I still love her. I have been in several relationships before this one. This one was so different from the rest, I wish i didnt love her still even though this is a ****ty situation.
avelonia2013 Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 She might as well have texted: "I'm so happy with my new relationship I'm texting you to see if you still care. Ain't being ME wonderful?" Ignore. ^^^ This. When you know someone is hurting don't rub their face in it...especially if you want to be cordial in the future. It was a douche-ette thing for her to do.
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