theonlyjuan Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 I have only just thought of this. We got together about 5 months after her first proper relationship. I think they nearly made it to two years. She was only 16 when they got together and he was her first for everything. She broke up with him. I never did find out why, I never asked. She told me once about how it took her months to finally kiss a guy after they broke up. She said it made her feel guilty. When I first knew her, I saw her out. I remember her being in tears about seeing her ex out. During our relationship she mentioned him a lot. I could tell she was still upset about certain things, when she spoke about them. She told me how it annoyed her when she found out he got with another girl, after they broke up. She had a lot of issues to do with him. He made her feel insecure, but those guys always manage to keep them coming back. I feel like our relationship might have been a rebound for her, maybe both of us. She said she wished she could love me but she just didn't feel it. She said I was the perfect boyfriend and treated her so well. Said I was the nicest person she'd ever met etc I feel that she just wasn't over him and wasn't ready for our relationship. I think she still loves him but I'm not sure she'd get back with him. Sucks for me. If this is the case, make sure none of you become someone’s rebound. It's hard to tell, but have a think about things before you make a move. I wish I had stopped and thought things through. I should have asked her about it more.
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