twinkie0 Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 Ok so I started dating the one girl from college I had had a crush on for almost a year. We went out a couple times and everything was going perfect. She left town for three weeks but we kept in touch. A few days before she came back she was kinda weird and yesterday when I saw her she said she needed time to think things over and I asked what happened, but she insists she doesn't know and just needs time. I kissed her and she backed off almost right away (but not quite, I mean we did kiss). So I just left and we agreed to talk later, and hang out sometime next week, probably. Now, I'm not the kind of guy who would push a girl into saying something like that, I mean I don't text her all the time and that kind of stuff that makes girls tell guys they need space, I give her plenty of space and as far as I know she appreciates that (since her past relationship ended because the guy was smothering her). At some point when she was away she even told me she felt like I didn't miss her because we hadn't talked in like two days, to which I replied the truth, that I was thinking of her but don't wanna be that guy who is texting all the time and she seemed really glad about that. I feel really upset about this. I'm doing my best not to talk to her, let her be the one to tell me something, even though it is hard to keep away like this. Should I just tell her to make up her mind already? If she doesn't want to go out with me anymore, I would rather know now instead of just waiting and feeling sad and confused, because the more time passes the more it's gonna hurt. You either want to be with someone or you don't, right? Or is this normal? Please help.
ChessPieceFace Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 She needs time to see if things with the other guy(s) that she didn't tell you about will work out.
MrCastle Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 She needs time to think things over and you need time to hook up with other women.
soccerrprp Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 Whatever the reason, in your case, i think you should move on and not be tethered by this.
shexy Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 the time to think things over usually means = time to see if it works out with this other guy/girl....if not, you'll do for now. OR it could mean = I need to think things over because I'm too chicken to just dump you right now, so maybe if I act wishy washy enough, you'll dump me first
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