AverageCat Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 It's an interesting period of my life and I liked to share it with the forum here. I'm in a Relationship with a pretty girl I really like. Problem is I am getting so attached to her. And while she is also very attached to me, this whole dependency is causing confidence issues on me. i.e. if I see a good looking guy around I get a bit jealous, i Now this wasn't happening months ago, when I wasn't so close with said gf and I had my options open. But since then I closed my options (as did she), and boom my confidence levels reached bottom. Now I'm wondering if this is sustainable. True, the good times I have with her are the best I've ever had with a girl, but I feel like maybe keeping our options open would help us be less dependable on each other and therefore more confident. I am not sure how to approach this.
athousandquestions Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 How long have you been together? Is this your first serious relationship? This is a pretty common occurrence. I do not think you guys should 'reopen your options' or anything like that. You just need to learn to trust her, and do small things to increase your self confidence. (Work out, dress nicely, flirt with your girlfriend, go out together, make it clear you are together, hang out with friends, have a life outside of her). If she wanted to be with someone else, she would leave you. She cares about you! 1
Author AverageCat Posted June 30, 2013 Author Posted June 30, 2013 How long have you been together? Is this your first serious relationship? This is a pretty common occurrence. I do not think you guys should 'reopen your options' or anything like that. You just need to learn to trust her, and do small things to increase your self confidence. (Work out, dress nicely, flirt with your girlfriend, go out together, make it clear you are together, hang out with friends, have a life outside of her). If she wanted to be with someone else, she would leave you. She cares about you! First R and like 5 months. I have a everything above..... I know she loves me.
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