MiaLovesDave Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 But not being in a LDR:) Hey my peeps!! I'm Mia, I basically joined up bc my situation being in a LDR sucks as it is hard being so far away from my man:( But I'm holding it strong for the both of us. To cut a long story short... New Zealand Girl meets American Boy Online, We become and acquaint as friends through constant correspondence, And then two years later, we develop feelings for eachother & fell in love. A year & a half plus two years on, we are still going strong but we're hurting deep inside at the fact that we still haven't met face to face due to our financial situation, But we do have our sight set on late 2014 to make it our life goal to save up whatever we can to finally make it happen and that I will firstly, fly out to NYC from Melbourne, Australia. I was kinda wondering, who else on here in a LDR like mine(distant wise) and if you can share me some of your LDR experience! Cheers.
justwhoiam Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 Please read this for good measure: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/long-distance-relationships/390794-brand-new-here-ldr-will-meeting-him-first-time-month Try not to raise your expectations too much too soon.
Author MiaLovesDave Posted June 29, 2013 Author Posted June 29, 2013 Please read this for good measure: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/long-distance-relationships/390794-brand-new-here-ldr-will-meeting-him-first-time-month Try not to raise your expectations too much too soon. Thanks for the heads up and believe me, we are both taking this very slow with low expectations by enjoying what we have and being happy:)
kiwildr Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 Hey fellow Kiwi - awesome to see your post on here, sounds like you have a far deeper connection considering the length of time you have been in contact, compared to what we had we had only been in contact 3 months. To be honest in my case I am not sure he had prepared himself, or was even ready and I think if you are realistic about expectations and have discussed them there is no reason for it not to work, in my case I think he had built me up to be almost perfect in his mind which I definitely am not. There are haps of people on here with awesome success stories so i hope some of them step up and tell you how it has worked, in my case i still can't quite explain what happened. Wishing you awesome success on your journey I'll be cheering for you 1
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