ryan4646 Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 I am a grown up adult boy of 28 years old. My girl friend is 27. we have 8 years long relationship and still we didn’t marry. We will. In the meantime I always wants to be physically close to her. Not sex I want all the time. But I want to go more physically like catch the boobs,ass,panty,suck the boobs. But she doesn’t come to my house cause she feels unsecured. Always just want to date in taxi and just give me couple of kisses. When I ask her that I need more, she keeps telling that if u finish all the things now what u will do after marry. But the consequence for the other boys and girls around me is not same. Every one is hanging around with their girls and doing what they want. My girl is reserve minded. But I have a age and my body and mind has some own needs. What I want to do in 28 years, I will not do it at 40 right ? I have some physical needs and she is not willing to complete it before mary. I have some friends. If I tell them they will do everything with me but I don’t want to cheat her. Could you please advise me what can I do in this moments and if any word you can through to my girl friend. Will show this to her. Thanks. If I don’t want to her my physical need whom should I ask ? please help me
PogoStick Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 Have you ever had sex with her? Are either of you a virgin? I must have sex with someone before I would marry her. In fact, I wouldn't even consider her my girlfriend! Bad sex, or no sex = no girlfriend. I would break up with her and start having sex with my hot friends!
Author ryan4646 Posted June 29, 2013 Author Posted June 29, 2013 No I never did. Just I have some kisses and hugs till 8 years. I wanted but she never agreed to sex before get married. It makes me confused and suspecious also.
Author ryan4646 Posted June 29, 2013 Author Posted June 29, 2013 hi pogo, She always think about people. What peple think, how people think if we kiss, hug etc etc. if I request her to give me anything like physical intenisty, she rejects me.she never think about what I want . is this a love going on between us ?
PogoStick Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 1. Why should either of you care what other people think? It's your relationship so do what you want. What is wrong with sex? Isn't that why we are here? 2. Why should anyone know if you have sex? Are there cameras in your bedroom? 3. Why are you willing to let her control the relationship? Why do you stay with someone for 7 years who does not give you what you need? Why are you afraid to leave and find someone who is a better match?
TheZebra Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 Agreed with Pogo... I'll add that this relationship you're in sounds hellish. It sounds like you have barely any physical contact! I'm sorry, but if you're attracted to someone, you'll want to bring the relationship to the next physical level. If she hasn't in 8 years, then I'm sorry, but something is really wrong. Can you imagine being married to her? Do you really think she'll suddenly start having sex then if she doesn't even seem to make out with you now? If you DO marry her you're going to be unhappy. You have sexual needs that don't match hers. I would end this relationship now before you drag it out any longer...
BradJacobs Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 Marry her and she'll have sex with you! Sounds like a simple solution.
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