figuringitoutx Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 So, I don't know what to do right now. I detailed in another thread about how I contacted my ex when I was in the hospital and he answered the phone, we talked, he asked if I wanted to get a cup of coffee after I was feeling better and he got back from a trip to Spain. Anywho, since that conversation, I've founnd myself missing him/thinking of him a lot. A lot more than I have in the past year. I miss him and I miss us. Should I initiate another contact with him or should I just let this whole situation go? I don't know what to do.
SimonSerenade Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 Call him and ask him straight out for a coffee, it couldn't hurt and if it turns out there's nothing there, at least you tried and can live with yourself for that, I think in that situation it's always worth a shot.
Author figuringitoutx Posted July 1, 2013 Author Posted July 1, 2013 If you've seen my past few posts, you know that I contacted my ex after about 11 months of NC, while I was in the hospital, we talked but that was that. I haven't heard from him since, but I sent him a text today saying "Hey, how're you?" I'm not sure if he's still out of the country or not, but we'll see. My gut was telling me to contact him, so I did. I'm not going to get my hopes up. If he doesn't reply, he doesn't reply. If he does, maybe it's a small step in starting to communicate again. Who knows.
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