"The person that meant the most to you is now the person you mean the least to"

[Zakov]

I keep telling myself this to stop thinking about her. It's more hurtful than helpful right now, but sometimes pain helps you move forward, right?

[aloneinaz]

That's a pretty negative way to view it. No matter who dumped who or what, you still shared time and your lives together. We shouldn't view it in a negative light even though some here on in a lot of pain from being dumped.

 

Lifes so short that we need to live in the moment and cherish the time we spend w/family, kids, and loved ones. It's our choice to view a break up in a horribly negative, catostrophic light or tell ourselves that it's a shame it wasn't meant to be and get back on the horse and try again.

[SimonSerenade]

I've wasted too much time in the past hurting over a past relationship, I'd give myself a month to break down and recollect myself at the most then I'd force myself to live life again and look forward, my ex was a great lady.... sometimes lol, we had a great relationship, we don't anymore, that was her choice and I wish her nothing but happiness for her future, you don't get enough time on earth to sit around holding on to bitterness and regret, your in charge of your own happiness so make yourself happy! chop chop!.

[Zakov]

That's a pretty negative way to view it. No matter who dumped who or what, you still shared time and your lives together. We shouldn't view it in a negative light even though some here on in a lot of pain from being dumped.

 

Lifes so short that we need to live in the moment and cherish the time we spend w/family, kids, and loved ones. It's our choice to view a break up in a horribly negative, catostrophic light or tell ourselves that it's a shame it wasn't meant to be and get back on the horse and try again.

 

Viewing this breakup in a negative way hasn't been stopping me from trying again, though. I can't view it through rose colored glasses, either. A lot of times, after a breakup, both parties just move on and stop caring about each other. She should be the last thing on my mind, and vice versa. I'm just trying to remind myself that last place is where she's placing me, even if she isn't. Because it helps me move on when I feel someone doesn't care anymore.