CorridorE Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 This is more of an anger rant than anything else, so first of all, thank you for listening! Sorry if this gets long I'm just really annoyed. My best friend got an angry call the other night from my ex's new girlfriend... somehow despite trying to keep out of anything that has to do with them, we're still getting involved So before the breakup late Feburary, my best friend and ex were very close, and I loved that they got along so well and were comfortable hanging out together. But when he cheated and left me, naturally she took my side and cut all contact with his as well. This past week, he texted her for the first time in a few months, asking "are we still friends?" She did reply, but only to say "No." He texted back, asking why and saying he missed their friendship. She got angry and said the things most best friends would: that she has loyalty to me and will never forgive him so to leave her alone. But I guess she also said critical things about his new girlfriend... something like that that she's nothing compared to me and she's not a good person (she went to hs with her). So then, she gets an angry call from his girlfriend, who's furious about the things she said to him. It was almost immediately after she sent the text, so she asked how the hell she knew so quickly. Apparently, according to what my friend told me after talking to this girl, she and my ex have such terrible trust issues they rigged eachother's phones to get all of eachother's messages. Is that even possible?? I couldn't believe it. When I'm in a relationship, I have nothing to hide from anybody, but if I guy asked to make it so his phone would recieve all MY messages... he'd be hitting the road. I can't think of many unhealthier things to go on in a relationship than that. So now she won't leave my friend alone about it. My friend is just ignoring all her calls now, but I can't get over how unreal that situation seems. (And I knoooow I shouldn't care about him, their relationship, or anything else to do with them, but you've got to vent now and then and let some steam off. )
esteem-jam Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 I think they were just chilling on couch and he showed the texts to her, like: -"I really hate to tell you, but somebody said bad things about you. See. What you gonna do about it?" -"O oo, wait. Whats her number? Watch me!" ... -"You go girl!" /hugs Naturally, she fired back with the same medicine. I think they got some pretty good laughs from this.
TaraMaiden Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 Your best friend needs to respond with the 'classic' text-blocker message: Text blocker activated. Your last message was not delivered. Further attempts will result in this service being charged to your account. Tell her to send it to whoever texts her. But if they both try, she MUST remember to type it in exactly the same way for both texts - otherwise they might catch on that it's not a legit program. Or, she could actually get a text-blocker app. I have one, and it's free - and it works beautifully.
Author CorridorE Posted June 29, 2013 Author Posted June 29, 2013 I think they were just chilling on couch and he showed the texts to her, like: Naturally, she fired back with the same medicine. I think they got some pretty good laughs from this. Nah, they live in different states.
Author CorridorE Posted June 29, 2013 Author Posted June 29, 2013 Your best friend needs to respond with the 'classic' text-blocker message: Text blocker activated. Your last message was not delivered. Further attempts will result in this service being charged to your account. Tell her to send it to whoever texts her. But if they both try, she MUST remember to type it in exactly the same way for both texts - otherwise they might catch on that it's not a legit program. Or, she could actually get a text-blocker app. I have one, and it's free - and it works beautifully. Thank you, very good idea!
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