Texaschief Posted June 28, 2013 Share Posted June 28, 2013 Ok so here is the story. I met this girl while she was waitressing in a club 3 months ago. I asked her if she wanted to have a drink when she got off and she agreed. Over the next couple of weeks we would hang out together in a group of mutual friends about 6 times with me and her breaking off and having our own conversations really getting to know each other. There was def an attraction to each other on both ends so I asked her if I could take her on a date just me and her and she agreed. We live an hour away from each other so setting a date up took some planning. The first date went amazing for both of us. And things have kind of fallen into place since then with us going on many dates since while only kissing and holding hands on our dates. Then she came to stay at my house for a couple of days and things still went great with us having sex for the first time, mind you 5 weeks after we met. We both wanted to take things slow. So we had a talk about where we saw us headed and were both content in not having the title of bf/gf as we both were in long term relationships before we met. ( both been broken up for 6+ months) but open to see other people if we chose. Since then we continue to go on dates and stay at each others houses for 2/3 days ata time and cuddle,hold hands, kiss, have sex pretty much bf/gf things. We have gone on a few weekend getaways also and have a Ridiculous amount of fun together. She states to me how happy she is with what we have as am I. We text/ talk everyday. I'm not really sure where to go from here. She has stated a few times she is not looking for a relationship but mutual friends joke that we are already in one. I am very happy with everything but i know I will fall for her more by getting more involved and invested with her as time goes by. Im not sure if I should sto Seeing her as I do not want to completlley fall for her or kind of let things just play out? Sorry this was so long just wanted to give as much back story as possible. Any advice would be appreciated, Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
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