perugina Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 I am in a 3 year relationship. We are very happy, we live together and we are actively planning our future together! We have a lot of fun and I honestly have never been so happy with anyone else that I was ever serious with. This is where things get a little confusing. Before I met my boyfriend I lived in Europe for almost two years. My neighbor was always interested in me but at that time I wasn't interested in him romantically but we shared a great friendship. When I moved back to the states we kept in touch via email and he confessed his love for me many times and I became to feel the same way towards him however we never ended up seeing each other again. Flash forward to now we are both in committed relationships. My aunt is getting married in europe soon and I will be attending the wedding without my bf because he can't get off of work. A huge part of me desperately wants to meet with my old friend while I am there but I know I will do something I am not proud of. I would never want to hurt my bf but I also don't want to regret not seeing him. I feel like this my last chance before I get married and have a family to see him one final time. I feel so conflicted. HELP!!!
youngnlove89 Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 We are very happy, we live together and we are actively planning our future together! We have a lot of fun and I honestly have never been so happy with anyone else that I was ever serious with. If you are okay with the fact that you might lose this because you want "that", then go for it.
therhythm Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 I am in a 3 year relationship. We are very happy, we live together and we are actively planning our future together! We have a lot of fun and I honestly have never been so happy with anyone else that I was ever serious with. This is where things get a little confusing. Before I met my boyfriend I lived in Europe for almost two years. My neighbor was always interested in me but at that time I wasn't interested in him romantically but we shared a great friendship. When I moved back to the states we kept in touch via email and he confessed his love for me many times and I became to feel the same way towards him however we never ended up seeing each other again. Flash forward to now we are both in committed relationships. My aunt is getting married in europe soon and I will be attending the wedding without my bf because he can't get off of work. A huge part of me desperately wants to meet with my old friend while I am there but I know I will do something I am not proud of. I would never want to hurt my bf but I also don't want to regret not seeing him. I feel like this my last chance before I get married and have a family to see him one final time. I feel so conflicted. HELP!!! You say you love your boyfriend... I doubt it but if you say so I will give you the benefit of the doubt... I will tell you something you don't do... respect your boyfriend, if you would have any respect for him you would not even consider cheating on him... Life is full of choices, cheating is one of them... just remember that every choice has its consequences
BreakOnThrough Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 Sounds to me like you already made your decision. You have feelings for another person who isn't your boyfriend. Let your boyfriend go and then have your fling.
pteromom Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 If the situation was reversed, and your bf was going to see an old crush while he was traveling without you, what would you want him to do?
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