LoveB86 Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 It's officially 3 months since the breakup in a few days. Alot has changed for me. Some of our mutual friends I see at work, but that's just about it. I see him almost every other day at work with his girlfriend visiting him every time. Sadly she has issues with me for no reason. I mean, he dumped me for her and treated me like dirt during the process. Not sure why she wants to give me dirty looks, but I laugh because it's clearly she is jealous. As for my ex, well I think he is trying to talk bad about me to other co workers saying I am "high matienance". Very funny considering I was there for him when he had nothing. I don't know if he is spreading rumors or someone else, but I am trying not to let it get to me at this point. He is the one who cheated and dumped me, everyone knows, so the nonsense is ridiculous. Making me look bad to ease his guilt. Again, I don't know why someone bother to tell me, but it really pissed me off. I am at 3 months of NC. I'm still sad, but the pain lessen everyday. I've recently been dreaming about him. I've lost alot of weight and look the best I had ever looked. Maybe that's why their both seemed to care so much to break me apart. Too bad, I mask it too well I miss who I thought he was. But, what he did to me by cheating and making her his girlfriend and dumped me, made me stronger. I see very clearly on what I deserve and that is someone who appreciates me. Not someone who takes me for granted. I forgiven my ex thru God as I no longer feel vengeful or hate towards him. May he find a heart one day and realize that cheating is NOT okay. He may never realize or even care, but I try my best to not dwell on the pain he put me thru. Weirdest thing today.. We locked eyes for the longest for the first time and then we both looked away. No smiles, no emotions... I hate that it happened, but I wonder why he is so comfortable looking at me now? At first, he acted as if I didn't exist at one point.? That's my story.. Staying positive as much as I can as I came along way from 3 months ago.
aloneinaz Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 It's officially 3 months since the breakup in a few days. Alot has changed for me. Some of our mutual friends I see at work, but that's just about it. I see him almost every other day at work with his girlfriend visiting him every time. Sadly she has issues with me for no reason. I mean, he dumped me for her and treated me like dirt during the process. Not sure why she wants to give me dirty looks, but I laugh because it's clearly she is jealous. As for my ex, well I think he is trying to talk bad about me to other co workers saying I am "high matienance". Very funny considering I was there for him when he had nothing. I don't know if he is spreading rumors or someone else, but I am trying not to let it get to me at this point. He is the one who cheated and dumped me, everyone knows, so the nonsense is ridiculous. Making me look bad to ease his guilt. Again, I don't know why someone bother to tell me, but it really pissed me off. I am at 3 months of NC. I'm still sad, but the pain lessen everyday. I've recently been dreaming about him. I've lost alot of weight and look the best I had ever looked. Maybe that's why their both seemed to care so much to break me apart. Too bad, I mask it too well I miss who I thought he was. But, what he did to me by cheating and making her his girlfriend and dumped me, made me stronger. I see very clearly on what I deserve and that is someone who appreciates me. Not someone who takes me for granted. I forgiven my ex thru God as I no longer feel vengeful or hate towards him. May he find a heart one day and realize that cheating is NOT okay. He may never realize or even care, but I try my best to not dwell on the pain he put me thru. Weirdest thing today.. We locked eyes for the longest for the first time and then we both looked away. No smiles, no emotions... I hate that it happened, but I wonder why he is so comfortable looking at me now? At first, he acted as if I didn't exist at one point.? That's my story.. Staying positive as much as I can as I came along way from 3 months ago. Good for you. You sound really healthy and are coping and healing well. You're next step is to find your next GREAT guy in your life. Then you won't give that PUTZ a second thought.
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