Author SmithJ Posted July 3, 2013 Author Posted July 3, 2013 No I haven't. I feel like a bit of a b**** though because before he and I moved in together she always let me stay over and we got on really well. I don't know why she would even bother now as he has left me!
TaraMaiden Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 Think about it. Why would the mother of your ex- get in touch with you to 'hope you're keeping well' now you and he are split up....?
Author SmithJ Posted July 3, 2013 Author Posted July 3, 2013 She's just being nice maybe? I really don't know
TaraMaiden Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 If you begin to engage with her, sooner or later she will make efforts to be a bridge-builder.
Author SmithJ Posted July 3, 2013 Author Posted July 3, 2013 It's strange you say that though because she thought that he was too young to be settling down and that he should be going out and having fun, she also encouraged him to move back to his hometown when we split up
TaraMaiden Posted July 3, 2013 Posted July 3, 2013 Well then maybe she's just trying to soften the blow... but you can bet that if you had replied, at one point, dinner conversation would have turned to how you and she were in contact...and he'd be party to that.
Author SmithJ Posted July 3, 2013 Author Posted July 3, 2013 Yeah probably, it always seemed like a constant battle with her though because she wanted him back home every weekend, really mithering all the time. I know that i'll be okay and be over it before I know it but I just wish I had a crystal ball sometimes so I could actually see myself being happy in the future.
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