marigo Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 This guy and i have been talking for about a month now. The whole thing moved pretty fast. We talked everyday initiated by him. We've gone on dates and we act like a couple and we're just so comfortable. Like we've known each other for a long time. I invited him to an event pretty shortly since we started talking and he said he will try to go since it is out of town and he has school. Anyway, we havent been talking much lately. He hasnt been responding to my messages. I mean i havent really tried to initiate because usually when we talk, i'll respond and he'll stop so im not sure if thats a hint. The last we talked was saturday which was me asking him if he'd still go to the event with me. He said that he will have to check his schedule and he will do that this week for sure. Its already Thursday and he still hasnt said anything. Should i ask him again or wait till he gets back to me about it? We havent talked since saturday.
Eternal Sunshine Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 Please don't ask him again. The ball is in his court. Try to never initiate twice in a row and never send out more than one message without a response.
Author marigo Posted June 28, 2013 Author Posted June 28, 2013 Please don't ask him again. The ball is in his court. Try to never initiate twice in a row and never send out more than one message without a response. Thanks for your response! I actually didnt initiate twice in a row, it was him then i responded then he stopped. And then i initiated then he stopped again. Ugh whats his deal!! I need to rsvp!
Lansing Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 At this point I would assume he isn't coming. Make your plans without him. If/when he responds tell him it is too late. He is being rude to you but not giving you a clear answer. I would stop trying to contact him at all. Do you really want to be with someone that doesn't finish a conversation??? Or better yet, tell him to "call" you vs. texting back and forth or whatever other communication method you are using where he just stops talking to you.
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