Acura1001 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 So I'm a guy and I'm in a weird relationship right now. We just graduated high school. And she came up to me on the last day of school and wanted to have a summer relationship with me so we can have sex and just enjoy the summer without any strong feelings. But after being with her for a month, I've started having feelings for her. And we just had sex for the first time and to her it was nothing and I felt like it was intimate. But after summer she is going to end it. But I dont want that. How should I handle this.
CaliBabe Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 FWB never work out, someone always develops feelings. I say cut your losses now and find someone who wants a relationship with you. 2
Author Acura1001 Posted June 30, 2013 Author Posted June 30, 2013 But she's leaving for college in 2 months and I wanna enjoy the last bit of time with her. Should I still end it or just wait till she leaves in 2 months
JustAReformedGirl Posted June 30, 2013 Posted June 30, 2013 So I'm a guy and I'm in a weird relationship right now. We just graduated high school. And she came up to me on the last day of school and wanted to have a summer relationship with me so we can have sex and just enjoy the summer without any strong feelings. But after being with her for a month, I've started having feelings for her. And we just had sex for the first time and to her it was nothing and I felt like it was intimate. But after summer she is going to end it. But I dont want that. How should I handle this. Unfortunately, there's really not much you can do. You both entered this knowing that it was supposed to be a casual summer fling, but as it sometimes (or usually) happens, one of you developed feelings. That being you, obviously. It's not your fault of course; you couldn't really help it. But as far as her decision to keep it casual, and for it to end at the end of summer? Well, unless she changes her mind and develops feelings too, it's out of your hands. If you can't deal with it only being a FWB relationship, you might need to take the steering wheel, and end it before your feelings get any stronger. Yes, it will hurt...but it will hurt a lot more if you keep holding on to this, and lying to yourself. Is she aware that you feel it was more? If not, it's best to be honest with her. Otherwise, things will only get more complicated for you both.
Author Acura1001 Posted July 1, 2013 Author Posted July 1, 2013 I have not told her how I felt. I'm not really sure if my feeling towards her are true or not though. Somebody told me its just because it was my first sexual incounter that my feeling are just miss placed
eddyctv Posted July 1, 2013 Posted July 1, 2013 I say you try to enjoy it over the summer, then go off to college and find someone else...Your choices in women will be endless.
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